Description
The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.
Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.
You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.
If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.
You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.
This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.
The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.
You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.
This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.
There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.
You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.
You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.
And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.
This is not a “stretch goal” for you.
This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.
And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
Episodes
- 2026 / 5 / 6Wife Needs Space Is She Planning To Leave?Has your wife said she needs space? Are you now worrying what that means and asking yourself (and maybe her) whether she is planning to leave? In this episode I explain what space means in this context, how...
- 2026 / 5 / 3Why You Can't Stop Worrying About Your MarriageFeeling overwhelmed and anxious? Want to know why you can't stop worrying about your marriage? Maybe you recently noticed a change in how your wife is being around you or maybe she recently said she's not...
- 2026 / 4 / 30Wife Won't Talk About Sex With You?Do you have this annoying problem too? You want to have a great, passionate, sexual marriage but your wife won't talk about sex with you and whenever you try it always goes badly?In this episode I talk about...
- 2026 / 4 / 27The Only Way A Man Attracts His Wife BackWhat we know from over 10 years of coaching men in relationship turmoil is that the only way a man attracts his wife back is by USING this moment in his life to learn something about himself and to grow into...
- 2026 / 4 / 24How To Stop The Hurt From A Failing MarriageAre you reeling and feeling hurt from a failing marriage? Want to know how to stop the painful feelings that seem to be overwhelming you?In this episode I talk about where the feelings come from, how to...
- 2026 / 4 / 21How To Create The Healthy Sex Filled Marriage You WantWant to know how to create the healthy sex filled marriage you want? If you're living in a relationship where intimacy, affection, touch, playfulness and sex is infrequent or missing altogether then you will...
- 2026 / 4 / 18How To Overcome Sexual RejectionDo you want to know how to overcome sexual rejection from your wife or girlfriend? It's one of the most painful experiences you can have in relationship with another person and it seems impossible to fix -...
- 2026 / 4 / 15Do You Feel Powerless In Your Marriage?Do you feel powerless in your marriage? Do you feel like nothing you do is ever good enough for your wife? Do you get constant negative feedback, criticism, eye rolls, snarky comments? Are you tired of this...
- 2026 / 4 / 12Want Your Wife To Trust You Again?Do you want your wife to trust you again? Has she said she doesn't trust you? If you aren't being intimate with each other that's is a clear sign that trust is an issue between you - but not in the way you...
- 2026 / 4 / 9How To Fix A Struggling RelationshipAre you in a struggling relationship feeling unhappy and unloved by your wife or girlfriend? Would you like to learn how to fix your marriage and also understand what she needs from you? In this episode I...
- 2026 / 4 / 6How Are You Using Your Sexual Energy With Your Wife?Wife not currently available for sex but you're going mad without it?!!! We want to know how you are using that creative sexual energy to continue to create more of what you want in your life (hint: it's all...
- 2026 / 4 / 3How To Know The Context Behind Your Wife's WordsWant to understand how to know the context behind your wife's words? Do you seem to make things worse when you're trying to make things better in your relationship? In this episode I explain 4 different ways...
- 2026 / 3 / 31How To Stop Being Needy & Become An Attractive Man AgainDo you feel anxious for attention and affection around your wife or partner? Want to know how to stop being needy and become an attractive man again? In this episode I talk about what makes us needy, how it...
- 2026 / 3 / 28How To Feel More Manly TodayWant to know a simple way for you to feel more manly today, starting straight away? In this episode I explain an easy was for you to start feeling more manly and taking back your sense of self confidence and...
- 2026 / 3 / 25One Habit To Stop To Have More ConfidenceDo you feel unsure and tentative in your relationship? Want to know about the one habit to stop to have more confidence? In this episode I talk about the habit of comparing yourself to other people or even to...
- 2026 / 3 / 19Am I Supposed to Just Tolerate Her Abuse?!Have you ever asked yourself "Am I supposed to just tolerate her abuse?" in relation to your committed, monogamous, romantic relationship...otherwise known as marriage. In this episode I answer one of the...
- 2026 / 3 / 16How to Become More Secure and Less Dependent on Her (some tough love)Want to know how to become more secure and less dependent on your wife or girlfriend and sex or intimacy with her to feel confidfent in yourself? In this episode I explain why women need you to get this, what...
- 2026 / 3 / 13Why Emotionally Mature Men Are So AttractiveWhy are mature men so attractive to women? It's a well know fact that men become more attractive as they age, but why is that? In this episode I explain why this is true and how we help men to get to that...
- 2026 / 3 / 10Failing Marriage How To Be A Stronger ManIf your marriage is failing and you're feeling anxious, fearful, and lost, somehow you must to find a way to feel stronger as a man again. Women are attracted to strength in many different forms, they also...
- 2026 / 3 / 7Don't Know How To Address Your Sexless Marriage? This Will HelpAre you in a sexless marriage? Officially this means that in your marriage, sex happens less than 10 times a year. Do you want to know how to address it in a way that is productive and yields positive...
- 2026 / 3 / 4How To Be A Healthy Happy Masculine ManDo you feel miserable or frustrated with your life at the moment? Want to know how to be a healthy happy masculine man again? In this episode I give you 3 key traits that any man needs to cultivate to...
- 2026 / 3 / 1The Foundation Of Sexy Mojo & Confidence is...What is the foundation of sexy mojo and confidence? Do you find yourself resisting going after the things you really want, whether that's sex with your wife or a new job or making a decision to alter the...
- 2026 / 2 / 26Want A More Sexual Relationship Cultivate This StrengthDo you want a more sexual relationship? Then learning how to cultivate this strength will make all the difference to your ability to create it. In this episode I talk about what ruins the sexual connection in...
- 2026 / 2 / 23How To Have Rock Solid Self ConfidenceDo you feel stuck in your romantic relationship or marriage? Do you want to know how to have rock solid self confidence in yourself? Would you like to be so confident that you never feel like you're walking...
- 2026 / 2 / 20Attraction Secrets Learn How To Lead Your RelationshipWe often talk about attraction secrets such as learning how to lead your relationship if you want more intimacy and passion with your partner. In this episode I discuss the difference between leading and...
- 2026 / 2 / 17Do You Get Angry About The Sexual Rejection In Your Marriage?Do you get angry about the sexual rejection in your marriage? Does it piss you off when you get turned down for sex or intimacy? Do you get shamed for even "wanting" to connect with her in that way? In this...
- 2026 / 2 / 14Living In A Sexless Marriage What Can You Do?If you're living in a sexless marriage you may want to know what you can do to change the direction you're headed in and start to reignite the spark that you had between you before. In this episode I talk...
- 2026 / 2 / 11Is Your Wife Planning To Walk Away From Your Marriage?Do you sense there's something odd going on in your relationship? Are you concerned that your wife is planning to walk away from your marriage? In this episode I talk about the common problem that many men...
- 2026 / 2 / 8Are You A Confident Or Insecure Man How To KnowHow do you know if you are a confident or insecure man? If your marriage or relationship is lacking closeness, affection and intimacy, this may be an important video for you... In this episode I explain how...
- 2026 / 2 / 2Relationship Confrontation Avoid It Or Face It? & Why?Do you avoid confrontation in your marriage or romantic relationship or do you generally choose to face it? This is a key indicator for whether your relationship evolves or stays stagnant and stuck in a...
- 2026 / 1 / 30The Divorce Lightbulb Moment You Need MostAre you facing the possibility of divorce? We work with men helping them either turn around their failing marriage or supporting them through the painful process of divorce so that they come out the other...
- 2026 / 1 / 27Want Your Wife To Want You Again?Do you want your wife to want you again? Has your marriage stagnated and become a co-parenting, roommate situation? Maybe you've heard her say that she's just not that bothered about sex anymore? In this...
- 2026 / 1 / 24How To Calm Down When You Get TriggeredDo you want to know how to calm down when you get triggered? Especially when the source of that trigger is something you just did!!! And in front of another person who's opinion you care about....!!! In this...
- 2026 / 1 / 21How To Stop Feeling So Unhappy In Your MarriageAre you struggling with feeling unhappy in your marriage? Do you find that you are ALWAYS thinking about your wife and the relationship and that it's affecting your ability to concentrate and be productive in...
- 2026 / 1 / 18How To Create More Intimacy In Your MarriageWant to know how to create more intimacy in your marriage? Are you feeling stuck and frustrated with the lack of closeness, connection, affection and sex in your relationship?In this episode I discuss an...
- 2026 / 1 / 15Why "Saving Your Marriage" Isn't Really What You NeedAnxious, frustrated, annoyed, afraid, panicking....sound familiar - all these feelings are running rife when you're worried your marriage is ending. Want to know why "saving your marriage" isn't really what...
- 2026 / 1 / 12Is Your Marriage Faulty? Is It Fixable?Do you feel like you're living in a faulty marriage? Want to know whether it is fixable? Are you spending way too much time watching a reading relationship content on the internet and ending up more confused...
- 2026 / 1 / 7I'm Becoming A Better Man But My Wife Still Thinks I'm A LoserIn this episode I explain why your efforts to improve yourself and become a better man do not guarantee your wife's forgiveness, admiration, or respect, especially if your changes come after years of neglect...
- 2026 / 1 / 4Beware the Red Pill Cult...Here's WhyAre you aware of the "manosphere" or "red pill"? Maybe you've heard of MGTOW (men going their own way) or "men's rights"? We constantly get asked about our take on these different men's groups so finally we...
- 2026 / 1 / 1The Only Coaching Tip You'll Ever Really NeedHey brother, I'm going to teach you the simplest, most powerful and the most elusive coaching tip I've ever learned. It's SIMPLE because it requires no study, no reading, no exercise and no money. It's...
- 2025 / 12 / 29I'm Married But I Don't Feel LovedHave you ever asked yourself why even though you're married you don't feel loved? It's such a common place for us to find ourselves, but how should you deal with those feelings of loneliness and lack? In this...
- 2025 / 12 / 26How Masculine Strength Creates Sexual PolarityWould you like a more fun, connected and sexual relationship? Would you like to understand how masculine strength creates sexual polarity with your wife or feminine partner? In this episode I talk about how...
- 2025 / 12 / 23Create More Emotional Connection & Enjoy More SexWould you like to have more intimacy in your marriage? Then it's time to learn how to create more emotional connection and enjoy more sex!!! In this episode I talk about two essential traits of a man who is...
- 2025 / 12 / 20How To Lead The Intimacy In Your MarriageWant to learn how to lead the intimacy in your marriage? Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, passion, fun and sexuality in your relationship? In this episode I talk about the belief and confidence...
- 2025 / 12 / 17I'm Afraid My Wife Will Never Make Me HappyHave you ever thought to yourself "I'm afraid my wife will never make me happy" and then considered some unwanted possible paths of action? In this episode I talk about the way we put our happiness onto other...
- 2025 / 12 / 14My Wife Slept With Someone When We Were Separated Help!Did your wife sleep with someone else? Are you left wondering what to do now she's told you? Even if you were separated at the time I know how confusing and upsetting this can be for a man especially if...
- 2025 / 12 / 11How To Stop Arguing and Fighting With Your Wife Before It's Too LateWant to know how to stop arguing and fighting with your wife? Dr John Gottman says the common signs that mean your relationship is at high risk of ending are defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism or...
- 2025 / 12 / 8Why Women Trust & Respect A Man Who Stays CalmWant more trust, respect and intimacy in your marriage? Then you will need to learn why women trust & respect a man who stays calm more than a man who gets volatile and emotional, especially when she is...
- 2025 / 12 / 5What If My Wife Is Going Through A Mid Life CrisisWhen dealing with a partner in crisis, prioritize your own internal well-being and happiness, avoiding being dragged into their negativity. Bring an energy of compassion and Mountain Lion energy when...
- 2025 / 12 / 2How Rejection Can Increase Your ConfidenceWant to know the answer to how rejection can INCREASE your confidence in yourself? Usually rejection is not something any of us look forward to, but there may be more to rejection than you've been thinking...
- 2025 / 11 / 29How To Get The Honeymoon Sexual Attraction BackWant to know how to get the honey sexual attraction back in your marriage or long-term romantic relationship? Have you bought the lie that attraction and sex is guaranteed to fade when you've been with...
- 2025 / 11 / 26Why Angry Agitated & Bored Men Get No AffectionAre you married yet you get no affection from your wife? Does it piss you off and make you angry and agitated? Do you find yourself bored by the prospect of being in this relationship in the future? In this...
- 2025 / 11 / 23How to Stop Thinking Your Marriage SucksDo you wish your relationship was different? Do you think your marriage sucks? Do the easy, fun, happy days seem harder and harder to come by and more and more you feel unsure of whether she (or you) want to...
- 2025 / 11 / 20Wife Never Initiates Sex (Or Have You Missed The Signs?)Are you frustrated because your wife never initiates sex? Was your marriage fun, flirty, passionate and full of intimacy and now it's dull, boring and the only time you get passionate is when you're trying to...
- 2025 / 11 / 17My Wife Doesn't Feel Connected How Do I Create Intimacy With Her?If you've heard that your wife doesn't feel connected you may be racking your brains trying to answer the question how do I create intimacy with her again? In this episode I answer this question in a recent...
- 2025 / 11 / 14You Trained Your Wife To Treat You The Way She DoesIt's the cold, painful truth that we don't want to hear - you trained your wife to treat you the way she does right now - so the question is...how do you like the way your wife treats you at the moment? In...
- 2025 / 11 / 11My Wife Said I Only Want Her For SexHas your wife said that you only want her for sex? What reaction do you have to that statement? Is it true? I know there's definitely some truth in it for most of us guys, but it's definitely not the whole...
- 2025 / 11 / 8How To Build Sexual Tension With Your WifeAre you in a marriage where the passion has stalled? Would you like to learn how to build sexual tension with your wife? Would you like to become unashamedly confident in your ability to lead the intimate...
- 2025 / 11 / 5If I Like To Argue Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?Arguing in a relationship can be a misguided attempt to get attention, and a more secure approach is to openly express the need for connection rather than provoking conflict. Arguing can be a way to get...
- 2025 / 11 / 2The #1 Rule for Creating Intimate ConnectionsWhy is it hard to have the connection and intimacy that you want in your relationship? Most of us are never taught how to understand creating intimate connections with other people. We often approach things...
- 2025 / 10 / 30Want More Respect Appreciation Confidence Sex & Money?Do you want a better life and relationship? What about more respect appreciation confidence sex & money? What if I said I could guarantee that you will have those things in your future - would you be...
- 2025 / 10 / 27How Masculine Strength Creates Safety & Attraction In MarriageWant to create more safety and attraction in your marriage? We teach men why women find strength both threatening, at the same time as being something that makes them feel safe and attracted to you. In this...
- 2025 / 10 / 24Why Women Always Say, "You HEAR me but you don't LISTEN!"Are you ever confused why your wife or partner says to you "You don't listen!"? Especially because you DO listen!!! So what does she mean when she says this? And what is she really needing from you? In this...
- 2025 / 10 / 21Stay In A Sexless Marriage Or Divorce Or What Else..?Are you in a sexless marriage? Are you contemplating divorce? Are you looking for another option to try before you make the choice? In this episode, I explain why women (yes even married women) are attracted...
- 2025 / 10 / 18Sexually Satisfied Married Men Know How To Do ThisAre you looking for advice that will help you become more sexually satisfied in your marriage or long-term relationship? It's thought by many people that the sex-filled initial honeymoon period of...
- 2025 / 10 / 15How To Stop Constantly Worrying When You're SeparatedEmotionally detach from your partner during separation by focusing on self-care and activities that "light you up" rather than obsessing over their thoughts and actions.Healing Separation Strategies Implement...
- 2025 / 10 / 12Help! My Need To Fix This Is Ruining My RelationshipOutcome dependence in relationships stems from immature and insecure behavior, driven by a burning desire for specific results or reactions, leading to controlling and sabotaging actions. Achieving outcome...
- 2025 / 10 / 9How To Show Love & Affection Without Appearing NeedyWant to know how to show love and affection without being needy? Maybe you've heard your wife ask for space or say she's feeling smothered and you're not sure how to give space while also continuing to lead...
- 2025 / 10 / 3Why A Passionate Marriage Needs A Man To Lead ItYou've heard us say it before - we believe that a passionate marriage needs a man to lead it. Now before you start with your "yeah but..."s what we're really talking about here is that to keep the passion and...
- 2025 / 9 / 30How Brilliant Problem Solvers Mess Up Their MarriagesYou may have read or heard advice given to men saying "Don't try to fix her" or they will mess up their marriage! Are you a brilliant problem solver who is facing a problem that you don't seem to be able to...
- 2025 / 9 / 27Wife Asked For Space When Can I Initiate Sex Again?Has your wife asked for space? Are you wondering when and how it would be OK to initiate sex or some kind of intimacy again with her? Maybe you're currently walking on eggshells and feeling insecure and...
- 2025 / 9 / 24How To Make An Avoidant Wife Affectionate AgainWant to know how to make your avoidant wife affectionate again? Does your wife spend all her time on her phone or with the kids or friends? Does it drive you mad, and when you address it she gets defensive?...
- 2025 / 9 / 21How To Lead Your Marriage Without Being ControllingHave you ever been called controlling? Want to know how to lead your marriage without being controlling? Maybe you've been told you never listen or that you always make things about you....these are signs...
- 2025 / 9 / 18More Passion In Your Relationship Is Created (By Your Courage)Do you want more passion in your relationship? Maybe you're missing the ease and fun of the early years and want to learn how to get it back again? Or maybe you've had some serious issues that knocked the...
- 2025 / 9 / 15Stop Trying To Show Your Woman Your Meatloaf!When I say stop trying to show your woman your meatloaf, I'm not talking about what you think I am talking about (though there's some validity to that thought too). In this episode I talk about why men doing...
- 2025 / 9 / 7Wife Wants Her Independence - Help!Has your wife said she wants her independence? Maybe she has said she missed out on her youth or that she loves you but is no longer in love with you...? In this episode I talk about why this happens, what it...
- 2025 / 8 / 31I Can't Relax Around My Wife Why?Have you thought to yourself "I can't relax around my wife"? Maybe you followed that thought up with another such as "Maybe we're not right for each other" or "I might be happier with another partner". Sound...
- 2025 / 8 / 28Why Your Confidence Disappears Around Your WifeDo you wonder Why Your Confidence Disappears Around Your Wife? Are you successful and confident at work and around other people and other women? In this episode I talk about the reason why so many very...
- 2025 / 8 / 25What Does Healthy Mature Masculinity Look Like?Ever wanted to know what healthy mature masculinity looks like? Many of us men have not grown up around a male role model who modelled grounded, unrattled, mature masculine energy. In this episode I use a...
- 2025 / 8 / 22How To Stop The Pain Of Your Wife Rejecting YouWant to know how to stop the pain of your wife rejecting you? It's one of the most difficult to understand and deal with problems in marriage. I know it well from many years of personal experience in my 28...
- 2025 / 8 / 19The Man Your Wife Wants To Have Sex WithOuch..that title...the man your wife wants to have sex with is hard to read when sex is infrequent and you want more in your relationship or marriage. In this episode I talk about 3 basic traits a man must...
- 2025 / 8 / 16How To Inspire Your Wife's Sexual AttractionWant to learn how to inspire your wife's sexual attraction to you again? Are you frustrated by the lack of affection and sexual desire in your marriage right now? In this episode I talk through 6 things men...
- 2025 / 8 / 13A Happier Marriage Requires A Happier Man Leading ItDo you wish you had a happier marriage? One where you return to the way you treated each other in the beginning again? In this episode I talk about a famous saying that points directly to the heart of what we...
- 2025 / 8 / 10The Key To Being Confident Initiating Sex AgainDo you avoid initiating sex in your marriage? Would you like to learn how being confident initiating sex again with your wife is closer than you might think? In this episode I explain why your urgent need for...
- 2025 / 8 / 7Marriage Betrayal Trauma How To Regain Your ConfidenceAre you suffering after marriage betrayal trauma? Do you wonder if you will ever be able to trust someone to be close to you again? Or maybe you wonder if you will ever regain your self confidence again? In...
- 2025 / 8 / 4How Do I Get My Wife to Want Me Again?Many of the men we coach in our community start by asking "How do I get my wife to want me again?" - it's a question I understand very well personally because I asked myself the same thing. In this episode I...
- 2025 / 8 / 1Unhappy Marriage Move On Or Work On It?If you're struggling in an unhappy marriage wondering whether it's worth it to move on or to stay and work on it then this episode was created for you.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...
- 2025 / 7 / 29Sexless Marriage Advice For Men (That Counsellors Don't Tell You)Are you a man in a sexless marriage? Are you feeling frustrated and thinking she's holding back intimacy from you? Maybe you've tried to get her to go to marriage counselling to discuss it...? In this episode...
- 2025 / 7 / 26My Wife Said She Feels Uncomfortable Around MeHas your wife said she feels uncomfortable around you? Or maybe she said she feels awkward or can't relax when you're home? Ouch! In this episode I talk about why this is such a common issue that guys deal...
- 2025 / 7 / 23The Best Way To Respond To A Loveless MarriageWhat is the best way to respond to a loveless marriage? We coach men to respond with confidence and creativity rather than fear and desperation (which never works) to start building the respect and attraction...
- 2025 / 7 / 20Wife Said I Need Space How to Respond With ConfidenceHas your wife said I need space? Right now your guts are probably all tight and in a knot, churning and filled with anxiety and questions. Would you like to know how to respond with confidence and clarity and...
- 2025 / 7 / 17Abusive Wife How To Stop The Pain TodayDo you have an abusive wife? Are you constantly fearful of upsetting her and then having to deal with her temper and angry reactions? In this episode I talk about how to view her behavior differently, so that...
- 2025 / 7 / 14Facing Conflict Is How You Become ConfidentNoone wants to say it but facing conflict is how you become confident in yourself, learn to trust yourself, feel valuable as a man and replace worry and anxiety with calm, grounded masculine strength. In this...
- 2025 / 7 / 11One Simple Way To Be More Attractive To Your WifeWant to know how to be more attractive to your wife? If you're in a marriage that is lacking trust, lacking respect, lacking affection, intimacy and sex, you may be scratching your head wondering what went...
- 2025 / 7 / 8All Men Want Is Sex All Women Want Is...Have you heard the women in your life say that all men want is sex? Whatever you think about that statement and it's validity, there is an opposite, alternative question from a man's perspective and that is,...
- 2025 / 7 / 5Wife Smells Your Fear Like Poo On Her ShoeDo you want more closeness and affection in your marriage? Do you want to understand how your wife smells your fear like poo on her shoe and she cannot move towards you when she smells it. In this episode I...
- 2025 / 7 / 2Increase Your Attractiveness To Your WifeDo you want to know how to increase your attractiveness to your wife? Maybe she has said she's not attracted to you, or you just notice that intimacy, connection, flirtation, sex and affection are missing...
- 2025 / 6 / 29Pretending To Be Happy In Your Marriage?Are you pretending to be happy in your marriage? It's a common experience for the men we coach, they stay passive and trying to make her happy while all the while inside they are miserable. In this episode I...
- 2025 / 6 / 26How To Turn Fighting Into AttractionWant to know how to turn fighting into attraction in your marriage? Are you facing a lot of disrespect and disapproval from your wife of late? What about affection and intimacy? Are they in short supply too?...
- 2025 / 6 / 23Wife Avoiding You How To Draw Her CloserIs your wife avoiding you? Would you like to learn how to respond in a way that draws her back towards you and brings her closer as well as helping her relax and become more affectionate again? In this...
- 2025 / 6 / 20No Intimacy In Marriage (& Why It Relates To Respect)Are you struggling with low or no intimacy in your marriage? Do you try to bring it up and end up in a cycle of arguing, silence, disconnection and then eventual reconciliation but still no affection? In this...
- 2025 / 6 / 17Feeling Stuck Hoping Your Marriage Will Change?Are you feeling stuck hoping your marriage will change? Have you seen your wife become less interested, less affectionate, less sexual and less kind and loving with you recently? In this episode I talk about...
- 2025 / 6 / 14How To Make Your Wife Love You AgainAre you frustrated with the lack of intimacy, care, love and connection in your marriage? Would you like to know how to make your wife love you again? In this episode I talk about the truth behind the...
- 2025 / 6 / 11How To Create a More Affectionate Wife & MarriageWant to know how to create a more affectionate wife and marriage? Is your marriage flat, passionless, sexless, and lacking affection? In this episode I talk about why she is always so kind, loving and...
- 2025 / 6 / 8Is Your Marriage Lacking Trust & Connection?Is your marriage lacking trust and connection? Do you feel like your partner doesn't trust you? Maybe you've heard them say that they don't feel safe with you or that they are feeling controlled or pressured...
- 2025 / 6 / 2I'm Anxious My Wife Is Detaching From Our MarriageIs your wife detaching from your marriage? Are you feeling overwhelmed with anxiety? Is it affecting you all day every day, stopping you focusing at work or sleeping at night? Is she avoiding relationship...
- 2025 / 5 / 30One Simple Rule For More Trust Respect And ConfidenceWant to have more trust respect and confidence in your relationship with your wife, your business colleagues, your clients, your friends and family? In this episode I talk about one simple but very powerful...
- 2025 / 5 / 27What Makes A Man Subconsciously Attractive To Women?Ever wonder what makes a man subconsciously attractive to women? Do you want a more affectionate, passionate marriage or relationship? In this episode Dan and I discuss what we see happening time and time...
- 2025 / 5 / 24The Worst Marriage Advice For Handling Your Walk-Away WifeI keep hearing the worst marriage advice for handling your walk-away wife from the men who contact us for support and coaching to deal with a wife who is seemingly uninterested, unengaged, pulling away from...
- 2025 / 5 / 21How To Know If You're The Type Of Man Who Is ToxicToxic Masculinity...have you been told you're a man who is toxic? Maybe you've got involved in a conversation where the term toxic masculinity was being thrown around and it got under your skin... In this...
- 2025 / 5 / 18Constantly Worried About Your Unhappy Marriage?Are you feeling anxious and worried about your unhappy marriage? Do you wish you could understand how to fix it and lead it back to connection, fun and peace again? In this episode I talk about the cause of...
- 2025 / 5 / 15Is Your Marriage Lacking Passion & Fun?Is your marriage lacking passion and fun? Do you feel like roommates and miss the ease, playfulness and flirtation that used to be so natural? In this episode I explain a real life example of taking a moment...
- 2025 / 5 / 12How To Create The Passionate Marriage You Really WantDo you want a more fun, sexual passionate marriage? What is holding you back from having that now? In this short clip from on of our live group coaching calls, I talk about the thing that keeps men from...
- 2025 / 5 / 9One Key Attribute Of A Consistently Calm Confident ManAre you struggling with feeling anxious? Would you like to feel like a consistently calm confident man? Would you like to know without doubt that whatever is happening around you, you have the ability to use...
- 2025 / 5 / 6I Don't Initiate Intimacy Because I Don't Want To Be RejectedHave you ever said to yourself "I don't initiate intimacy because I don't want to be rejected?" You are not alone!!! Most of the men we work with are very successful and confident at work, but at home, they...
- 2025 / 5 / 3How to Confidently Handle A Cold & Disconnected MarriageAre you living in a cold & disconnected marriage? Is your wife always on her phone or constantly keeping her distance from you? In this episode we discuss what causes a woman to shut down like this, what...
- 2025 / 4 / 30How To Build Magnetic Attraction As A Married ManDo you want more confidence as a married man? Have you heard women talk about how other men seem to be magnetic in terms of their presence, and a sense of calm confidence? Would you like to know how to have...
- 2025 / 4 / 27Can't Find The Strength To Turnaround Or End Your Sexless Marriage?Are you in a sexless marriage or a relationship where the intimacy and sex is not where you want it to be? Do you ask yourself the question whether you want to stay or go or whether this relationship will...
- 2025 / 4 / 24Sexless Marriage Mistakes Men MakeWould you like to know the most common sexless marriage mistake that men make? I have a lot of data from over 10 years of coaching men to turn around their unsatisfactory marriages and helping them reignite...
- 2025 / 4 / 21Can You Train To Be A Confident Masculine Man?Do you want to be a confident masculine man? Do you want more passion, fulfillment and intimacy in your life? In this episode Dan and I talk about the value of creating connections with other initiated men...
- 2025 / 4 / 9Lead The Sexual Attraction In Your Marriage AgainIs the passion and sexual attraction in your marriage floundering? Do you wish you could reignite the spark between you and get the passion back? In this episode I talk about the way we work with men in our...
- 2025 / 4 / 3The 3 Behaviors That Turn Off Her Desire For YouDo you know that there are things we men do that turn off her desire for you sexually? Is your marriage suffering from a lack of connection, a lack of affection and a lack of fun and playful intimacy? In this...
- 2025 / 3 / 28Why You Should Never Say "Have a Good Day" AgainDo you ever say Have a good day? What about when you hear other people say it to you? In this episode I talk about the difference between hoping you'll have a good day and knowing you'll have a good day and...
- 2025 / 3 / 18The Husband EVERY Wife Is Attracted ToAre you a husband struggling with a sexless or low sex marriage? Are you wondering what you have to do to understand what it is that your wife is attracted to? In this episode I talk about the way we teach...
- 2025 / 3 / 15Does Your Wife Get Angry About Small Things?Does your wife get angry about small things and then the conversation ends up blowing up into a huge argument? Over such an insignificant thing!!! What's going on? Why does she do that? In this episode I talk...
- 2025 / 3 / 12The True Source Of Unshakeable ConfidenceDo you want unshakeable confidence? Women say that one of the most attractive, safe and trustable things about a man is his confidence in himself. In this episode I explain why honesty in knowing who you are,...
- 2025 / 3 / 9How To Know If You Should Get divorced Or Stay MarriedI speak to many men asking themselves how they can know if they should get divorced or stay married. They tell me stories about their relationship and what they want and we dig into the details of what causes...
- 2025 / 3 / 6A Happy Sexual Marriage Requires An Unapologetically Passionate ManIf you want a happy, Sexual Marriage, there are some things we men have to learn to create the kind of feelings in our wives that make them want to be sexual with us. In this episode I talk about the kind of...
- 2025 / 3 / 3How to Handle a Chronically Controlling and Critical WifeAre you miserable in your marriage? Does it feel like your once loving and kind partner is now an insecure, chronically controlling and critical wife? In this episode I talk about the most common reason that...
- 2025 / 2 / 28How To Know if You're Being Too NeedyHas your wife or girlfriend told you you're being too needy? Did it piss you off or confuse you? Maybe she's been less available or less affectionate recently and so you're wanting to get closer to her, spend...
- 2025 / 2 / 25Predicting The Future Of Your MarriageAre you predicting the future of your marriage all the time? Do you spend way too much time thinking about, worrying about and imagining what your wife is thinking about you and your relationship?In this...
- 2025 / 2 / 22Fear Of Uncertainty To Calm Peaceful Confident ManAre you suffering from a fear of uncertainty? Would you like to learn how to be a calm, peaceful, confident man - for the rest of your life, no matter how your circumstances change? In this episode I talk...
- 2025 / 2 / 19How Do You Become Irresistible To Women (& Your Wife)?Have you felt or been called needy? I know how that hurts brother, I've been there. What if I told you there is a guaranteed way for you to become so confident in yourself that you become irresistible to...
- 2025 / 2 / 16Conquer Your Fear Of Rejection When Initiating SexDo you fear rejection when initiating sex with your wife? Do you lie next to her at night wanting to reach out but then convince yourself not to because you hate being turned down? Or maybe you still try but...
- 2025 / 2 / 13Fix Your Relationship With Confident LeadershipDo you want to fix your relationship but you fear confrontation and making things worse? In this episode I talk about a fundamental of good leadership and why the approach of many marriage counselling...
- 2025 / 2 / 10How To Stop Feeling Lonely Low & Lacking MotivationAre you lacking motivation? Are you feeling lonely low and like a big fat blob of unworthiness? In this episode I talk about the reasons we men can get into that mode of thinking and being and how to help...
- 2025 / 2 / 7Is Your Marriage Making You Miserable?Are you in an unhappy marriage? Do you spend much of your time analysing and trying to work out the "reasons" why it's crappy and who's to blame? In this episode I talk about a story where one person decided...
- 2025 / 2 / 4Go From Passive To Powerful ManAre you stuck in a boring life and marriage? Do you feel like a powerful man or are you feeling lethargic and passive? A bit comfy, unmotivated and bloated.... In this episode I talk about the choice we have...
- 2025 / 2 / 1What Men Want From Women (& Women Want From Men)What do men want from women? I know most of you will answer that with the word "sex" right....but in my years of work with wonderful, amazing, big hearted, high achieving men, I've found that that's just a...
- 2025 / 1 / 29How To Create A Happier Marriage GuaranteedAre you struggling in your relationship? Would you like to learn how to lead better and create a happier marriage? What if I could guarantee to you that you would have a happier relationship...would you think...
- 2025 / 1 / 26Stop Being Needy & Start Oozing ConfidenceAre you feeling anxious and nervous around your wife? Have you heard her say that you're being needy or being smothering and annoying? Hurts doesn't it...? In this episode I talk about a simple analogy I use...
- 2025 / 1 / 23Most Common Cause For Your Wife's Loss Of AttractionHas your marriage become stale and sexless? Have you heard her say that she is feeling a loss of attraction to you? In this episode I talk about the single most unattractive thing that men in long-term...
- 2025 / 1 / 203 Needy Behaviours That Turn Off Your WifeHave you heard from your wife that you're being needy? Or maybe she said you're being weird or creepy...? Ouch! In this episode I talk about 3 of the most common ways that men can be needy in their...
- 2025 / 1 / 17Fight To Save Your Marriage Or Let It Go?Are you trying to save your marriage but feeling confused by all the conflicting messages telling you to fight for your relationship, fight for her, show her what she means to you - yet there are just as many...
- 2025 / 1 / 14Feeling Lazy Uninspired & Unmotivated?Are you feeling lazy uninspired & unmotivated? Has your belief and self confidence drained away? Are you confused as to why and what you need to do to get inspired and motivated again? In this episode I...
- 2025 / 1 / 8How To Stay Calm When Your Marriage Is Falling ApartAre you struggling with an overwhelming feeling of anxiety and fear around your marriage falling apart? Maybe you recently had a conversation with your wife where she said she's not happy in the relationship...
- 2025 / 1 / 5How To Be The Kind Of Man Your Wife Wants To RideWhat kind of man has a wife who wants to be intimate with him? There are some men who seem to naturally have a way about them that immediately puts women at ease.In this episode I talk about the way a horse...
- 2025 / 1 / 2Handling Conflict What Does Strong Masculine Energy Look Like?Do you fail at handling conflict well? Do you find yourself getting reactive and defensive? Maybe you are hearing your partner saying things like "you're always angry or you're grumpy or you always make it...
- 2024 / 12 / 30The Cure For Anxiety Agitation & AngerDo you struggle with anxiety? Are you feeling agitated and is your anger always just below the surface? In this episode I tell a story about a man in my life who showed me what cool, calm, confident...
- 2024 / 12 / 27Wife Avoids Intimacy Do You Know Why?Does your wife avoid intimacy with you? Is she affectionate and warm with you around other people but when you get home, she's cold and distant? In this episode I talk about how safety is key for women and...
- 2024 / 12 / 24Is Your Sexless Marriage Making You Angry?Are you struggling to deal with your sexless marriage? Does the fact that the fun, intimate, connected, playful version of your marriage seems lost make you confused, frustrated and angry? In this episode I...
- 2024 / 12 / 21Is Your Marriage Driving You Insane?Is your marriage driving you insane and making you unhappy all the time? Do you find yourself thinking about it and feeling frustrated and anxious about it a lot? In this episode I talk about where happiness...
- 2024 / 12 / 18Frustrated With Your Sexless Marriage?Are you frustrated with your sexless marriage? Are you the only one who seems bothered by the lack of connection, affection and intimacy between you? In this episode we discuss how men go about "getting" sex...
- 2024 / 12 / 15Why Meditating Improved My Sex LifeAre you frustrated by your sex life? Does thinking about your relationship give you a feeling of anxiety and fear? In this episode I talk about how I struggle to follow other people's instructions on how to...
- 2024 / 12 / 10How To Create Real, Secure ConnectionCovered in this podcast episode:The havoc insecurity wreaks on dates and relationships, and how to create secure bondsCovert contracts – the transactional idea that if you do what someone else wants, they’ll...
- 2024 / 12 / 6Unhappy Marriage, Feeling Rejected, Disrespected & Ignored?Are you in an unhappy marriage where your feeling disrespected, rejected and ignored? Maybe you're wishing for more honesty, more connection, closeness, consideration and intimacy?In this episode I talk about...
- 2024 / 12 / 3No Affection In Your Marriage Without Trust & Emotional SafetyNo affection in your marriage? Want to understand why trust and emotional safety is required before she can be affectionate and attracted to you?In this episode I talk about what we do in relationships that...
- 2024 / 11 / 30How To Improve The Intimacy In Your MarriageDo you want to improve the intimacy in your marriage? Is your relationship lacking intimacy affection & sex? Are you thinking about it all the time and feeling generally frustrated, pissed off and...
- 2024 / 11 / 27Is Your Partner Giving You The Silent Treatment & Stonewalling Your Relationship?Is your wife giving you the silent treatment? Does it create huge amounts of anxiety and fear or anger in you?In this episode I explain what stonewalling and the silent treatment are, the effect they have on...
- 2024 / 11 / 24Is Your Marriage Heading Towards Divorce?Is your marriage heading towards divorce? How can you tell? Are there any signs to look out for? I know you can feel when things are struggling, less connected, less understanding and less of a team...
- 2024 / 11 / 21The First Step To Rebuilding Trust With Your WifeWhen you've heard your partner say that she doesn't trust you, it's imperative that you learn what to do to start rebuilding trust with your wife. In this episode I talk about the reasons that she doesn't...
- 2024 / 11 / 18Marriage Advice For Men Being Defensive Ruins Trust & IntimacyLooking for some marriage advice for men specifically? If you want more trust & intimacy in your relationship, learning how being defensive is ruining the trust and connection in your marriage is key. In...
- 2024 / 11 / 15Wife Doesn't Trust You How To Rebuild Lost TrustHas your wife said she doesn't trust you? Yet you haven't cheated or abused her, so what's going on and how do you rebuild lost trust in a long term relationship or marriage? In this episode I talk about the...
- 2024 / 11 / 11Your Wife Said You're Emotionally Unavailable? Is This Why?You're emotionally unavailable! So many of the men I speak to have heard this phrase which often comes directly from your wife's therapist (even though she's never met you) or from a book your wife is...
- 2024 / 11 / 8How To Stop Suffering In Your Sexless MarriageDo you find yourself suffering in your sexless marriage? Are you wishing for more connection and intimacy but feel like you're the only one?In this episode I talk about the cause of this endless suffering and...
- 2024 / 11 / 5Do You Feel Anxious When Your Wife Is Upset?Do you feel anxious when your wife is upset? Do you struggle to be around her and start imagining what she must be upset with YOU for? In this episode I talk about why the anxiety happens what causes it and...
- 2024 / 11 / 2Why You Need Confidence For A More Affectionate MarriageDo you want a more affectionate marriage? Are you lacking confidence in yourself and in your wife feeling attracted to you? In this episode I talk about the importance of confidence in creating connection,...
- 2024 / 10 / 30Why Most Men Never Get the Intimacy They WantIf you're like most of the men we talk to, you want intimacy with your wife or partner - it's something you're feeling is missing and it's also a friction point in your relationship. In this episode I talk...
- 2024 / 10 / 24Get Your Spark Back & Attract Your Wife AgainWant to attract your wife and have more fun, connection, passion and intimacy again? Are you in a marriage with a lack of affection, lack of respect, lack of desire and intimacy?In this episode I talk about...
- 2024 / 10 / 18Runaway Wife What's The Best Way To Respond?Do you have a runaway wife? Yes that's actually a thing, in fact it's something most of the men in my community have experienced at some point, sometimes multiple times. In this episode I talk with a good...
- 2024 / 10 / 15The Simple (and scary) Cure for JealousyAre you struggling with feeling jealous of another man, or feeling jealousy about your wife and the things that are getting her attention that aren't you? I get it brother - I have felt this many time for...
- 2024 / 10 / 13The Key Mindset Change To Feel More Confident In Your MarriageDo you want to feel more confident in your marriage? Are you feeling anxious and fearful that your marriage is headed downhill and there's nothing you can do right to turn it around? In this episode I explain...
- 2024 / 10 / 10Has Your Wife Said You Always Make It About You!You always make it about you...arrrggghhh!! Does that sound familiar? Have you heard those exact words come from your wife's mouth? She's upset and that makes you nervous and then you get frustrated with her...
- 2024 / 10 / 7Want Your Wife To Want Sex With You Again?Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or an affectionless marriage? Do you Want Your Wife To Want Sex With You Again but every time you initiate you get knocked back or rejected and it hurts. In this episode I...
- 2024 / 10 / 1How To Avoid Divorce - Your Dad Should Have Told YouAre you in a struggling marriage trying to avoid divorce or facing a period of separation from your wife? Are you feeling incredibly anxious and scared of what this all means and trying to find some useful...
- 2024 / 9 / 13Men Marriage & Sex Podcast Episode With Janna Denton-HowesMen marriage & sex is a podcast episode we recorded with Janna Denton-Howes - If you're a married man and you want a connected, fun, passionate, full and rich relationship then this recent podcast episode...
- 2024 / 8 / 29Your Wife Said You're Emotionally Unavailable Is This Why?You're emotionally unavailable! So many of the men I speak to have heard this phrase which often comes directly from your wife's therapist (even though she's never met you) or from a book your wife is...
- 2024 / 8 / 26Stop Making This Mistake If You Want To Feel ConfidentDo you want to feel confident in yourself as a man, as a father, as a husband, as a lover and as a leader in everything you do in life?In this episode I talk about a very common mistake we make as men when...
- 2024 / 8 / 7How To Be A Courageous Attractive Man & HusbandWant to understand how to be a courageous, attractive man? Are you living in an unhappy, miserable marriage with a wife who is cold and distant, snarky and disrespectful? Maybe you're dealing with infidelity...
- 2024 / 8 / 4How To Stop Your Negative Feelings Overwhelming YouAre you struggling with negative feelings from your sexless marriage? Or perhaps you've recently found out about an affair or a possible redundancy and it's overwhelming you with emotions. In this episode I...
- 2024 / 8 / 1Is Your Marriage Worth Saving?Are you in an unhappy, miserable, sexless, cold bitchy marriage? Want to know if your marriage is worth saving?In this episode I talk about the essential clarity that a man must find BEFORE he makes his next...
- 2024 / 7 / 29Attraction Secrets Stop Hiding Your EmotionsWhen dealing with a sex starved relationship or sexless marriage, trust and attraction are the keys to building more safety, more emotional connection and more intimacy. In this episode I talk about the...
- 2024 / 7 / 26Rejected By Your Wife Again How To Respond With ConfidenceHave you been rejected by your wife again? Want to know how to stop your fear of rejection and respond with confidence and be assertive in building connection, attraction and passion in your marriage again?In...
- 2024 / 7 / 23Low Self Confidence From Unsatisfactory Sex Life?Are you in a marriage where your unsatisfactory sex life is causing you to lose your sense of wellbeing, sense of happiness and overall make you feel unloved, unconfident and miserable? In this episode I talk...
- 2024 / 7 / 20Why Being AFRAID of Divorce Will End Your MarriageIt's counter-intuitive that so many good, loyal, loving husbands being afraid of divorce is the major factor in many, many actual divorces that happen in the world. But it's undoubtedly true. In this episode...
- 2024 / 7 / 17How To Respond When Your Wife Is No Longer In Love With YouHave you just heard your wife is no longer in love with you? Maybe she has asked for space or said she wants to separate or divorce. All these things can have a man feel paralysed and panic, trying to...
- 2024 / 7 / 14How To Calm Your Anxiety About Your Pending DivorceSearching for information on how to calm your anxiety about your pending divorce? It's one of the most difficult, emotionally crippling events that can happen to a man - I know, I've lived through it and now...
- 2024 / 7 / 11Are You Letting Your Fear Define Your Life?Are you letting your fear define your life and relationships? So many men I speak to have a paralysing fear of how their wife or boss or friend or colleague is going to react to them if they really say what...
- 2024 / 7 / 8Help Your Wife Relax & Trust You To LeadDo you want to help your wife relax & trust you to lead the relationship to more fun, more passion, more relaxation, more intimacy and more adventures? In this episode I talk about how you can bring a...
- 2024 / 7 / 5Respond To Your Wife's Criticism As A Calm Masculine ManWould you like to know how to respond better, as a mature masculine man? Are you struggling with your wife's criticism of you? Do you keep getting triggered, upset and resentful at the most pointless...
- 2024 / 7 / 2Is Your Wife Thinking About Divorcing You?How do you know if your wife is thinking about divorcing you? Are there signs that can help you be prepared? How do you avoid the worst thing happening and have the best chance of saving your marriage?In our...
- 2024 / 6 / 29Wife Pulling Away Feels Like You're Going To DieIs your wife pulling away from you and your marriage? Have you heard your wife say one of the following things?I’m done.I’m just numb.We’ve never had a connection.I just need space and I don’t know if I’ll...
- 2024 / 6 / 26Unhappy Marriage What Are You Tolerating?Are you living in a miserable, unhappy marriage? Is your wife ignoring you, being mean, staying out all night drinking, sleeping in a different bedroom, and she won't allow you to touch her or even talk to...
- 2024 / 6 / 20Handle Your Wife's Criticism As A Confident ManDo you struggle to know how to handle your wife's criticism as a confident man who can stay calm, stay open and loving, stay strong in your sense of self confidence and self worth? In this episode I talk...
- 2024 / 6 / 17Why Your Masculine Energy MattersYour masculine energy matters in a long-term, romantic, sexual, committed, monogamous marriage or relationship. If you don't know what your masculine energy is, think of it as being aware of whether you feel...
- 2024 / 6 / 14Not Attracted To My Wife Anymore (Is This Why?)Have you recently thought to yourself that you're not attracted to your wife anymore? Maybe you've read that the way she behaves is wrong or unfair or inappropriate?In this episode I talk about the mistake...
- 2024 / 6 / 11Wife Avoids Sex How Should You Respond To Her Excuses?Your wife avoids sex with you? Are you the only one who initiates physical intimacy in your marriage? Does your wife make excuses like "maybe later" or "I'm so tired" or "I've got so much to do" or "I don't...
- 2024 / 6 / 8When Your Wife Is Pulling Away Respond With ThisHave you noticed that your wife is pulling away from your marriage? Are you hearing her say things like "I need space" or "I don't know what I want" or "I need to find myself" or "I don't think I'm in love...
- 2024 / 6 / 5How To Fix A Sexless Marriage With Your Roommate WifeDo you have a roommate wife and a cold, passionless and sexless marriage? Are you finding yourself complaining and whining, trying to get her attention and affection again? I know exactly how that feels and...
- 2024 / 6 / 2Why You Need To Stop Chasing Your Wife For SexAre you in a marriage where your wife doesn't want sex anymore? She may have also said she still loves you and stressed that she's just no longer feeling those "in love" feelings she used to have for you. She...
- 2024 / 5 / 24Attraction Secrets Be An Unapologetically Sexual ManWhat are the attraction secrets of men who have fun, passionate and sexual marriages? Part of creating more intimacy and passion is learning how to be an unapologetically sexual man. In this episode I talk...
- 2024 / 5 / 21The #1 Reason Grown Men Can't Get The Love They WantAre you one of the many frustrated men we talk to every month who are confused about how to get the love they want? Are you dealing with a lack of companionship, trust, affection, intimacy and respect in your...
- 2024 / 5 / 18Why You Need To Treat Your Wife Like Number 2Are you in a marriage where you treat your wife as the leader? Do you try and make her happy and please her all the time, yet you're still unhappy and frustrated by the lack of passion and connection in your...
- 2024 / 5 / 15The Difference Between A Confident Man & An A-holeHave you ever been called an a-hole but at the time you felt like you were being a confident man? There's a key difference between a man who is calmly confident and self reliant in his self belief and a man...
- 2024 / 5 / 12Wife Hates Me Talking About My FeelingsHave you had the thought "My Wife Hates Me" especially when it comes to talking about my feelings and talking about our relationship. Does your wife seem so cold, dismissive, distant and disrespectful while...
- 2024 / 5 / 9Is This Why Your Wife Is Cold & Distant?Are you stuck in a marriage where your wife is cold & distant? Have you been pursuing her to address her behaviour but she shuts down, blows up or avoids the conversation entirely? In this episode I talk...
- 2024 / 5 / 6Your Anxious Wife Needs Your ConfidenceAre you in a marriage with an anxious wife? Do you sometimes feel attacked, feel your wife's disapproval or even disgust towards you? It might sound like: You're so weird...you're acting so strange You're so...
- 2024 / 5 / 3Don't Do Marriage Counselling With Your Wife (Without This First)Are you going to marriage counselling with your wife? Many men we coach find that their marriage counselling sessions are unproductive and seem to make things worse rather than better. In this episode I...
- 2024 / 4 / 30Your Sexless Marriage Makes You Uncomfortable For A Good ReasonAre you living in a sexless marriage? Does it make you uncomfortable? Do you feel frustrated and like there's more to life than this? A great man knows when he's holding back and playing small in his life and...
- 2024 / 4 / 27My Wife Doesn't Like Compliments - Why?Have you noticed that your wife doesn't like compliments from you anymore? How are you supposed to create more connection, passion and intimacy when you can't even give her a compliment which makes her feel...
- 2024 / 4 / 24The Power To Make Your Wife Feel Attracted Or NotI speak to a lot of men in struggling marriages who want to learn how to make their wife feel attracted to them again.In this episode I explain how I use horses and horse training to teach men how the way...
- 2024 / 4 / 21How Do I Get My Wife To Have Sex With Me?How do I get my wife to have sex with me? I was looking for that answer for many, many years in my 28 year marriage. What I found out during the breakdown of the attraction, affection, trust and respect in my...
- 2024 / 4 / 18The Cure For Your Frustrating Sex LifeDo you have a frustrating sex life? Are you in a sexless or low sex marriage or relationship? Do you have a higher sex drive than your partner and end up feeling horny and frustrated at the lack of intimacy...
- 2024 / 4 / 15Unhappy Man Or Unhappy Marriage You ChooseAre you an unhappy man in an unhappy marriage? Most advice to create a happier life and relationship focuses on trying to control the circumstances and manipulate your wife to get her to change her...
- 2024 / 4 / 12Attraction Secrets Don't Apologise To Your WifeThere are many websites that will tell you the secret to attraction with your wife is don't apologise. Do you notice yourself apologising to your wife often and wishing she would apologise for her stuff...
- 2024 / 4 / 9Stuck In An Unaffectionate Marriage?Are you stuck in an unaffectionate marriage? Is your wife cold, distant and closed off to you? Does she sit on her phone all the time or keep going out with friends rather than spend time with you?In this...
- 2024 / 4 / 6Wife Doesn't Like To Be Touched?Are you in a relationship where your Wife Doesn't Like To Be Touched? OR maybe she said she doesn't want to be touched by you? Ouch!! We speak to guys all over the world about this and various similar forms...
- 2024 / 4 / 3No Affection How Your Insecurity Pushes Her AwayAre you experiencing a marriage with no affection? Is your wife cold and unaffectionate toward you? Has she asked for space or said you're suffocating her? Perhaps you've heard her say "you always make it...
- 2024 / 3 / 31Is Your Unhappy Marriage Draining Your Energy?Are you feeling stuck in an unhappy marriage where you're trying everything you can to address the problems but all that keeps happening is your wife finds new problems to complain about? Are you at a loss...
- 2024 / 3 / 28Have You Lost Your Sexy Self Confidence?Have you lost your sexy self confidence around your wife or long-term partner? You used to be able to connect with each other so easily, fun, laughter, sex and intimacy were natural and you didn't spend time...
- 2024 / 3 / 25How to Be a Real ManThere's a difference between "acting" like a man you might see on TV. And then there's BEING a man...no matter what is going on around you. No matter what external stress or triggers he may be facing.In this...
- 2024 / 3 / 22What Works To Save Your Unhappy MarriageAre you living in an unhappy marriage? Have you been studying red pill vs blue pill terminology? What about being an "alpha" vs a "beta" man?What actually works when you want to turn around your marriage vs...
- 2024 / 3 / 19Attraction Secrets Women Feel Masculine StrengthWhat is masculine strength? What does that even mean? And why is it so important in regards to attraction, trust and respect in a long term marriage or relationship?In this episode I dive into how we describe...
- 2024 / 3 / 16What to Do If Your Wife Wants To Leave Your MarriageAfter years of collecting data on WHY a wife wants to leave your marriage I've seen that actually the most important response is WHAT do I want to create in my life that is inspired by this incredibly hard...
- 2024 / 3 / 13What to Do When She Brings Up the Past?Why does she always bring up the past - we're getting on great and having fun together then suddenly - wham - everything changes and all the progress we've made recently goes out the window! It's so...
- 2024 / 3 / 10How to Inspire Her PassionIn a great conversation I had with a man this week he asked, "What is the difference between a man who successfully reignites the passion in his relationship and one who fails?" There are three key qualities...
- 2024 / 3 / 7Can't Stop Thinking About Your Unhappy Marriage?Are you feeling exhausted and overwhelmed by your unhappy marriage? Do you find yourself constantly analysing, researching and THINKING about how to fix it? In this episode I talk about the simple truth of...
- 2024 / 3 / 4This Habit Makes You Awkward Around Your Wife and Kills Your Sex LifeThis episode describes the bad habit men have of comparing themselves to others. This habit kills confidence and your sense of personal power and value. This habits kills intimacy and your sex life because...
- 2024 / 3 / 1The Most Shocking Bedroom Complaint I've Ever HeardThis episode tells you the reason women move away from men and pressure. Why do women want space from us? Why do they sometimes want to get close only to then move away? How do you build trust and...
- 2024 / 2 / 27How to Be Magnetic by Doing LESS of This (every man needs to know this!)This episode tells you the reason women move away from men and pressure. Why do women want space from us? Why do they sometimes want to get close only to then move away? How do you build trust and...
- 2024 / 2 / 24Your Angry Wife Needs Your HelpAre you dealing with an angry wife more often than not lately? Do you end up avoiding her or getting into long drawn out arguments about nothing important? Is it making you question whether you want to stay...
- 2024 / 2 / 21What Are You Sending Out Into Your Life & Relationships?In a world of instant gratification it's easy to want your needs met "right now" which is all well and good, but when we're talking about connection and intimacy and relationships, there's a different pace...
- 2024 / 2 / 18The One Thing a 32-Year-Old Married Man Needs MostI know, life can seem pretty crappy if you're in the same situation as a lot of the men we talk to every day.. Maybe you're dealing with a relationship that is cold, disconnected and seemingly going nowhere...
- 2024 / 2 / 15What Women Want But Can't Ask ForI've got something important I want to share in this episode. A lot of guys get this wrong. They want to know what women want but they get frustrated when I tell them that she can't ask you for it...Without...
- 2024 / 2 / 12The Foundation of a Sexually Attractive ManIf your relationship is struggling you may be wondering what makes a man an Attractive Man? Your relationship issues can often be a sign that you are lacking a direction and a sense of purpose.Women...
- 2024 / 2 / 9What to Do When She Bites, Kicks and Threatens to LeaveLearn How to Become a Calm, Confident Leader in Your Life and Relationship and Create the Connection and Intimacy You Really Want! Join master men's coaches Steve Horsmon and Tim Wade on a 4 day horse ranch...
- 2024 / 2 / 6How Men Lose Their Sex AppealWhat the hell is sex appeal anyway and how can men lose it if they never thought they had it? Are you in a marriage that is passionless, sexless or without warmth, connection, trust and affection?In this...
- 2024 / 2 / 3Secrets of a Mountain Lion HusbandMy recent interview with Ryan Matsumori on the Love Secrets Revealed Summit. In it we cover many aspects of masculinity and becoming a confident man while in a relationship including: personal power, having a...
- 2024 / 1 / 31How to Not Flinch When Women Say Boo!How to became more clear and comfortable in your own skin, and why she notices it immediately.The uniqueness of our retreats lie in the ability to bond with and practice what is learned, leading to a desire...
- 2024 / 1 / 28How to Get What You Want Instead of Fearing What You DON'T Want"I want connection, I want to feel attraction, I want affection."If you show up fearing rejection, you're gonna create that very thing.Communicating intention for connection and affection can be seen as a...
- 2024 / 1 / 25How to Know...If You Should Stay or GoFriends and family will give you "free" advice all the time. But knowing whether to stay in a relationship or leave really requires a cool, calm, confident and CLEAR sense of WHY you're deciding to stay or...
- 2024 / 1 / 22What Are Your Next 30 Years Going To Include?30 years...that's a long time! Do you know what you want to experience over the next 30 years? I know we all have an idea of what we might like to happen, but what do you KNOW for sure that you WILL create in...
- 2024 / 1 / 19How Will You Lead Your Unhappy Marriage?Is your Unhappy Marriage sucking the life energy out of you every day? Do you feel lonely, unimportant, unloved and frustrated by the lack of excitement, passion, fun or even just civility in your...
- 2024 / 1 / 18How To Control How Long You Last During Sex With Keeley RankinDo you suffer with premature ejaculation (PE)? Want to control how long you last during sex? Is it having a damaging effect on your self confidence, your sexual confidence and your overall happiness in life,...
- 2024 / 1 / 16The One Thing Women Hate Most (& We Hate Even More)Do you find yourself dealing with a wife or partner who seems to fluctuate emotionally? Have you heard the words "I don't trust you" or "You don't listen to me"? Do you feel like you keep going round and...
- 2024 / 1 / 13Anger Issues Because Of Your Unhappy Marriage?Has your wife told you that you have anger issues? Are you living in an unhappy marriage with little to no affection, respect, trust and appreciation? Do you find yourself getting angry and having issues...
- 2024 / 1 / 10How To Make Your Wife Have Sexual Feelings For You AgainYou want your wife to have sexual feelings for you again, but she says she's done with sex, with you or anyone else. You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper her with massages and...
- 2024 / 1 / 7Wife Said She Doesn't Want to BE MarriedHas your wife said she doesn't want to be married anymore? If you're anything like me it instantly sent your mind and body into overdrive and you're now panicking trying to find the tools you need to fix...
- 2024 / 1 / 4Being An Attractive Man In Your MarriageI've seen this to be the most reliable trait of being an attractive man that your woman can trust, feel safe with and respect - all key foundations of attraction. I speak to a lot of men in long-term...
- 2024 / 1 / 1The Subconscious Mistake Which Erodes Her Trust in YouHave you ever said something to your wife or partner with the intention of making them feel bad, to hurt their feelings? Do you feel like she doesn't respect your opinion or that your feelings are not as...
- 2023 / 12 / 29Is My Wife Having An Affair?Have you asked yourself "is my wife having an affair?" Have you noticed some strange changes in her behaviour that have you questioning her commitment to you and the relationship?Maybe your wife is pulling...
- 2023 / 12 / 26I Just Don't Have Those Feelings For You AnymoreIf your marriage recently became cold, disconnected and distant or even if it's been like that for years...there's a ridiculously common reason that we discuss in today's episode.In our coaching, we help men...
- 2023 / 12 / 23Don't Hope She'll Love You Again...Hope for This InsteadIn this episode I want you to understand why it's important to know what you're hoping for and WHY - it makes ALL the difference in the way your future is going to turn out.In our coaching, we help men get a...
- 2023 / 12 / 20The HUGE Difference Between a Man's Hobby and His CommitmentDo you struggle with feeling confident and motivated, driven and focused, especially when it comes to your romantic relationships? In this episode I explain the key difference between HOW you approach this...
- 2023 / 12 / 17I’m Growing But My Wife Refuses To Join MeAre you frustrated in a marriage or relationship where you want more? More connection, more vulnerability, more trust, more respect...? In this episode I talk about the most powerful tool that you can learn...
- 2023 / 12 / 14How to BE a More Confident Man (It Starts With This)If you're a man dealing with some form of struggle or crisis in your life, whether that's your relationship, your family, your work or maybe a health issue...the MOST IMPORTANT thing that will help you not...
- 2023 / 12 / 11How to Increase Your Sex Appeal by Stopping This (and starting this)This is the secret men need to know about increasing their sex appeal, attracting their woman and having more intimacy. This could save your marriage if you implement this advice before it's too late.In our...
- 2023 / 12 / 8The Quickest Way To Lose Your Manly MojoIf you're in a marriage or relationship which isn't where you want it to be, you may be feeling pretty unmanly, unconfident and lacking in manly mojo to change anything for the better. In this episode I talk...
- 2023 / 12 / 5My Wife Said She Doesn't Feel SafeHave you heard your wife say she doesn't feel safe with you? Is your relationship lacking companionship, affection and sex?In this episode I talk about the reasons why sex and affection can dwindle and how...
- 2023 / 12 / 2How to Use Your Sexual EnergyAs men we have our own struggles to deal with around sexuality, sexual attraction, sexual energy, sexual tension, sex drive etc. And if you have ever felt like your sexual energy was wrong, or bad or maybe...
- 2023 / 11 / 29How to Stop Being Wishy Washy and Get What You WantIn this episode I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you woke up tomorrow and simply chose to love?In our coaching,...
- 2023 / 11 / 26Wife Doesn't Trust You Get Your Self Respect & Confidence BackAre you in a marriage where your wife doesn't trust you? Maybe you're seeing her distance herself from you, less affection, more arguing, less spending time together, more spending time with other...
- 2023 / 11 / 233 Steps to a Satisfying & Sexual MarriageWhat does the choice of accepting responsibility to change the conditions in your marriage look like?STEP 1: It starts with a clear vision of WHAT YOU WANT in your romantic love and sex life over the next...
- 2023 / 11 / 20Midlife Crisis Should You Divorce?Are you seeing worrying changes in your marriage at the moment? Maybe you're feeling like roommates or you're arguing and fighting more... In this episode I talk about the way you look at this moment in your...
- 2023 / 11 / 14Is It WRONG To Want Her to Love Me?!!This is the talk your father, uncle and grandfather never had with you. Do you want her, do you want more intimacy, affection, connection, approval, appreciation and sex with her?This episode is the cold,...
- 2023 / 11 / 11Why Your Sexual Edge Matters and How to Keep ItI believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our life.What’s a sexual edge? It’s that part of our sensual and sexual nature where we feel the most alive, driven...
- 2023 / 11 / 8Jealous Of Your Wife's Male Friends?Are you feeling jealous of your wife's male friends? While you can't control your wife's choice of friends, you do get to have an opinion about those male companions that she hangs around with. You get to...
- 2023 / 11 / 5She Wants Space and Now I Can't Eat or Sleep...What Now?If you're struggling to eat or sleep because you've just heard from your partner that she wants space, you're not alone - not at all - in fact this is incredibly common - so much so that almost all long term...
- 2023 / 11 / 2My Wife Doesn’t Respect MeHave you thought to yourself "My Wife Doesn’t Respect Me?" There's nothing quite like the pain of a wife pulling away from you to make you sit up, get clear about what you want and take action. But taking...
- 2023 / 10 / 30What Women Want (Your Confidence and Solid Self Worth)Are you confused about What Women Want? The quality of your relationship is directly related to how confident and strong your feel about yourself. I could just end this description there - you have all the...
- 2023 / 10 / 27How To Handle Drama With ConfidenceDo you find yourself struggling to handle drama in your life and relationship in a way that calms the tension, reassures the other person and leaves you feeling calm and confident in yourself?In this episode...
- 2023 / 10 / 24A Man's Role in Creating a Happier MarriageAre you noticing that your wife or partner is cold or distant? Are you hearing things like "I need space" or "I don't know what I want?"In this episode which is a clip from a recent Roundtable Group Coaching...
- 2023 / 10 / 21Re-establish Your Confidence in a Sexless MarriageIt's hard living in a sexless marriage or a relationship where there's tension, frustration, resentment and a lack of trust and affection.When you've been constantly trying to make the other person happy,...
- 2023 / 10 / 18How to Get More Confidence, Respect and Swagger (hint: quit the self-help crap)So, you want to save your marriage? Have more sex? Have more respect and affection in your relationship?To get more confidence, respect and swagger you may need to STOP gorging on Self Help crap. I LOVE...
- 2023 / 10 / 15How I Stopped my Fear of DivorceAre you struggling with a relationship that's sexless, cold, distant and boring? Or maybe your work environment creates stress for you every day.In this episode I talk about your ability to change your...
- 2023 / 10 / 12The Stupidly Simple Thing a Woman Needs to Feel Happy With YouWhat does it take to REALLY have a happy marriage, happy life and yes, a happy wife - and why most of us have this backwards...In this episode I talk about the most important thing that a man can learn about...
- 2023 / 10 / 9Why Self Help May Not Save Your MarriageWhen your relationship is struggling or you're finding yourself feeling down, stressed, angry or frustrated a lot of the time and you're trying so hard to turn things around but they seem to just get worse,...
- 2023 / 10 / 6How to Engineer More AffectionToday I'm talking about two key elements in your ability to change the future of your life and relationships.Whether you're wanting more fun and enthusiasm in your relationship or you're trying to find the...
- 2023 / 10 / 3How to Know Your Purpose as a ManIf this last year has been a tough year for you...know that you're not alone!! BUT...and this is important...what I want you to know is that making the next year a much better and even GREAT year is much...
- 2023 / 9 / 30How to Stop Being Triggered by Your WifeDo you find yourself being triggered by your partner, getting pouty and frustrated almost every day in your marriage? Have you heard things like "Stop being defensive" "Grow up" "Stop being so touchy" "You're...
- 2023 / 9 / 27What Most Men Don't Get About Creating A Happier MarriageDo you want a happier marriage? There's one thing we see time and time again in the men who successfully create a marriage that's happier, more relaxed, more fun and more passionate - they learned the secret...
- 2023 / 9 / 24The Mistake of Treating Her as Your EqualYour wife is frustrated and upset about something and you're done dealing with this all the time. Why can't she see the simple solution...you've explained it to her before and when you do, she gets more irate...
- 2023 / 9 / 21Sexless Marriage Should I Leave?Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or do you feel like you're never going to be met in this unhappy relationship? Do you know what to do next? Or are you waiting for something or someone else to change it?Do...
- 2023 / 9 / 18Want Your Wife To Initiate Sex & Affection?Do you Wife To Initiate Sex more often? Are you in a relationship or marriage with very little or no sex, affection and intimacy? Do you find yourself being the only one who ever initiates connection between...
- 2023 / 9 / 15My Wife Is Moving Away From Our MarriageIs your wife moving away from your marriage? REJECTION!!!! Arghhh, the word that strikes fear into every married man's heart, especially if you've ever experienced a period in your relationship where sex and...
- 2023 / 9 / 12What To Do When She's Always Stepping On Your ToesYou know that we often talk about the similarities between horses and women in order to help you navigate your relationships and create a sense of connection, trust, safety and security. When you understand...
- 2023 / 9 / 9Why Your Wife Silently Pukes When YOU Get EmotionalDoes your wife get upset or cold with you when you try to create connection with her? You may be just around the corner from separation or divorce. In fact you may have already heard things like "You're...
- 2023 / 9 / 63 Counter Intuitive Ways To Stop Your Marriage Falling ApartAre you desperately seeking advice on the internet to help you stop your marriage from falling apart? Most advice says "Show her you love her more" or "Talk to her about how you feel" but none of that crap...
- 2023 / 9 / 3How to Control the Connection and Intimacy in Your RelationshipToday's episode is about connection and intimacy, how we think about it and how we can be more deliberate in creating it.Connection is the foundation to intimacy, but most of us men have been taught to "make...
- 2023 / 8 / 31Feeling Stuck, Rejected and Disconnected? (You might have forgotten this)Are you feeling isolated, lonely, disconnected and rejected by your wife? Are you also struggling to get the support you need? I've been exactly where you're standing brother and I want you to know that...
- 2023 / 8 / 28Is There a Two-Year Clock Ticking on Your Marriage?How do you know when your marriage is seriously under threat? In this episode I talk about the unknown clock that's ticking in every married woman's head when the relationship is cold and distant and there...
- 2023 / 8 / 25How to Have A Fulfilling Relationship & LifeIn this episode I talk about truth and honesty...which seems obviously important and easy to understand, but when you're in an intimate relationship it's often much harder to be brutally honest with your...
- 2023 / 8 / 22Game Changer When a Man Finally Feels SAFE to Tell His TruthThis episode explains why good, strong men can feel horrible in their marriage and feel unsafe to talk to anyone about it. While I know you want a better marriage, more affection and more intimacy, you have...
- 2023 / 8 / 19What to Do When Your Wife ComplainsDo you often find yourself complaining either in your head or verbally to others about your marriage or relationship? In this episode I talk about the common cause of a lot of marriage dissatisfaction and how...
- 2023 / 8 / 11Handling An Angry Wife With ConfidenceDo you struggle to know how to deal with your angry wife? Want to know how to handle her anger with confidence and in a way that leaves you feeling more self respect? In this episode I talk about what to do...
- 2023 / 8 / 8The Number One Cause of a Disconnected MarriageAre you in a relationship where the intimacy and affection has been slowly dwindling for a period of time. It could be a few weeks, maybe a month or two. For some of us it even stretches to years. Don't worry...
- 2023 / 8 / 5How to Handle a Raging 14-Year-Old Like a Ninja DadThis episode gives you the secret to effectively handling an angry, raging teenager and get the outcome you really want with him.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to...
- 2023 / 8 / 26 Steps For A More Affectionate MarriageDo you want a more affectionate marriage? Is your relationship feeling cold, disconnected and uncaring? Do you find yourself comparing your marriage with other people's relationships?In this episode I talk...
- 2023 / 7 / 30Does Your Wife Want Space Or A Divorce?Does your wife want space? How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown??? How do you tell is she's just tired or if she's quietly...
- 2023 / 7 / 27How to Turnaround a Long Term Sexless RelationshipAre you dealing with a sexless relationship? It's incredibly common - 10-15% of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year (the definition of a sexless relationship).So how do you handle finding yourself...
- 2023 / 7 / 24The Science Behind Her Wanting Sex Again With YouWe get asked this question ALL THE TIME!!! "When is my wife going to want sex again?" And what he's really asking is...when can I give her an ultimatum and then choose to leave or stay.What he really wants is...
- 2023 / 7 / 21This Will Mess Up Your Marriage (In a Good Way)Are you ready for a change in your marriage or long term romantic relationship? Are you feeling stuck and just keeping your head above water avoiding arguments but bored and wishing for more? In this episode...
- 2023 / 7 / 18Want Your Wife To Be More Affectionate?Many of the men I speak to say they want their wife to be more affectionate but things just seem to be getting worse rather than better...so what causes this? I get to hear a lot of stories about men and...
- 2023 / 7 / 15Why Women Emasculate MenAre you in a long term relationship or marriage which has frequent arguments, long periods of disconnection and silence, awkwardness and many moments where you fight about things which really aren't important...
- 2023 / 7 / 5My Wife Never Touches Me AnymoreOne of the most common conversations we have with guys is around the question "Why my wife never touches me anymore" and what are the factors that caused this disconnection between two people that seemingly...
- 2023 / 7 / 2Why More Confidence Won't Help You Save Your MarriageThere's a common misconception about how to improve your marriage when it's struggling. It's the same misconception when trying to re-attract or increase attraction and intimacy in a relationship too.In this...
- 2023 / 6 / 29The Key to a Happier Day, Marriage...or DecadeI'm turning 60 this week. And the last 10 years have been the best ever.This video is about how changing the way we THINK is the #1 predictor of happinessand all sort of really good stuff.In our coaching, we...
- 2023 / 6 / 26The Cure for a Stagnant Sexless MarriageAre you an unhappy husband just existing in a Sexless Marriage?In this episode I talk about the cause of your unhappiness and what you can do to start making changes today.Here's the article I mentioned in...
- 2023 / 6 / 23How to Quickly Escape Your Marriage LimboAre you in a relationship or marriage where your partner or wife is cold and distant? Have you noticed she's spending more and more time with friends or working? When you ask for time with her does she get...
- 2023 / 6 / 20How to Let Go of a Shitty MarriageAre you living in an unhappy, miserable, crappy marriage with no trust, no connection, no intimacy, and very little care and love? In this episode I explain why we coach men who want to save their marriage...
- 2023 / 6 / 17Do You Want Great Sex or a Great Life That Includes Sex?This episode explains why men can't have a passionate sex life without first accepting responsibility for creating a passionate life. How do get "turned on" outside the bedroom? How does a man get "turned on"...
- 2023 / 6 / 14How To Rebuild Your Wife's Trust In YouI wrote an article about how to rebuild your wife's trust in you and I thought I would summarize the key points here in this episode. Here's the article if you want to read it:...
- 2023 / 6 / 11Are You A Good Guy With A Bad Sex Life?Ever feel like your sex life is determined by her? As if your wife holds the keys to your sexual power and whether you get to feel like a confident sexy man. In this episode I talk about the way you can learn...
- 2023 / 6 / 8The Key Mindset Change That Makes You Instantly More MasculineIn this episode I explain how you can begin to see yourself as the creator of your own reality. Despite negative and unpleasant circumstances, I explain how OWNING YOUR RESPONSE is the "key to the...
- 2023 / 6 / 5Why You Must Stop Trying to Fix Your MarriageIf you are trying to avoid divorce, save your marriage, fix your marriage (or even improve it slightly), you must change the way you're thinking about the situation.In nearly every single case of conflict,...
- 2023 / 6 / 2Wife Wants A Divorce? How To Save Your FamilyYour wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond.In this episode I explain the counter-intuitive response that guarantees that you will...
- 2023 / 5 / 30How to Know When She's Really Done...and when she's notHere's one of our top five questions we get every day. How do I know if it's too late...I mean, how do I know if I have a chance to save this marriage...I mean, how can I convince her she should stay...I...
- 2023 / 5 / 27Wife Is Always Criticising Me Learn The Hidden CauseDo you feel like your wife is always criticising you? There's a very well researched reason for her reacting to you in this way and it's important to understand if you want to learn how to lead your marriage...
- 2023 / 5 / 24The Big Mistake Most Of Us Make With Our Throbbing LibidoMost of us think our relationship would greatly improve if our sex life improved. But being a slave to your sex drive is EXACTLY how men sabotage their sex life. This video describes how to refocus your...
- 2023 / 5 / 21The 3 Crucial Questions Most Men Can't Clearly AnswerThe first thing we talk about with men in our courses, retreats and personal coaching programs is VALUES. Call them values, operating principles, commandments, standards, declarations or non-negotiables....
- 2023 / 5 / 18Being Married Shouldn't Be This Hard!!"I'm married and am a good provider, listener, romantic, funny, attentive, lover, patient, good dad...etc. I’m a good catch. But my wife is distant, crabby and intimacy is infrequent at best. It really...
- 2023 / 5 / 15Handle Challenge and Confrontation (Like a Man)Do you ever feel disrespected or like you can't do anything right? Does your partner challenge your plans often? How do you react? Do you get defensive? Does it divulge into a bigger argument?In this episode...
- 2023 / 5 / 12The Secret to Getting What You Really Want in Your MarriageYou know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations that will clean out your issues and allow you both to move...
- 2023 / 5 / 9Two Ways Women Test Men (and why she does it)In this episode I introduce TWO WAYS WOMEN TEST MEN which you may experience and how to pass them with flying colors. Wives subconsciously test husbands when they need to feel better about him and their...
- 2023 / 5 / 6How to Be a Passionate Hummingbird and Re-Energize Your RelationshipIf you want to re-energize your relationship and create more passion, connection, desire, fun, playfulness, and intimacy, it's a by product of becoming a more passionate, fun, enthusiastic, playful man.In...
- 2023 / 5 / 3How to Recapture Your Mojo and Overcome Your Secret Fear (you know which one I mean)A man's deepest fear is usually not being seen as "strong enough". It's a fear of being seen as a "pussy" or "weak" compared to other men. This fear can be exposed in many settings - work, with friends,...
- 2023 / 4 / 30The Mistake All Unhappy Husbands MakeIs your relationship or marriage feeling dull, boring or stuck? Do you feel like you're becoming room mates? Are you looking for practical advice to reignite the spark between you? In this episode I talk...
- 2023 / 4 / 2718 Inches To More Affection and Intimacy With Your WifeI know you want Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife, this video challenges you to spend ONE WEEK operating from your HEART instead of your HEAD when it comes to your relationship. Affection, intimacy and...
- 2023 / 4 / 24Save Your Marriage? This is How to First Save Yourself!This episode tells you how to become more secure and confident in the face of divorce or separation. We explain why you're THINKING is the key and how to change the fearful paralyzing thoughts that are making...
- 2023 / 4 / 21How Not To Build Attraction With Your WifeIf you want to build attraction with your wife again, then there's an important area of men's development that you may need to pay attention to. In this episode I talk about the way that our uncontrolled...
- 2023 / 4 / 18My Wife Always Turns Me Down For SexDoes Your Wife Always turn you down when you initiate?? Do you get frustrated and hurt by her lack of interest? In this episode I talk about the core issue and what needs to change to make those painful...
- 2023 / 4 / 15How To Respond When You Re-attract Your WifeWhen guys contact me I ask them what they need and whether you want to re-attract your wife. We go through an intense 6 month program where you learn how to become a confident man of direction, purpose and...
- 2023 / 4 / 12What To Do With The Scary Divorce Thoughts That Wake You Up at 3_00amIf you're faced with a marriage that is growing further and further apart, or a wife who has said she wants space, wants to separate or wants a divorce, then I know you're also lying there in the early hours...
- 2023 / 4 / 9Dirty Talk For A Sexual & Affectionate MarriageWould you love to learn how to use dirty talk with your wife or long-term partner? Do you love it when someone talks dirty to you? In this episode I talk about why many of us men struggle with being able to...
- 2023 / 4 / 3Emotional Affair - What to Say When She is Emotionally Attached to Another ManAre you concerned that your wife may be involved in an Emotional Affair?When you're dealing with a possible infidelity or emotional disconnection in tyour marriage and you're concerned that there's a chance...
- 2023 / 3 / 31Why You're Still Stuck In An Unhappy MarriageHow will you change your unhappy marriage? The quote I mention in this episode is by Brendon Burchard:“There are two things that change your life: either something new comes into your life, or something new...
- 2023 / 3 / 28Should You Buy Your Runaway Wife a Gift?How to know what to buy your crazy, estanged, separated or runaway wife for the holidays. Do you want to know how to buy gifts for your wife when your relationship feels like it's fallen apart?It's a very...
- 2023 / 3 / 25How to Never Lose a Fight AgainAre you finding yourself frustrated and at a loss for what to do in your relationship? Do you keep going around and around treading on eggshells, then getting annoyed by each other, then taking time away to...
- 2023 / 3 / 22My Wife Said She’s Unhappy, Help!Are you constantly anxious and worrying about your relationship? In this episode I talk about a very common coaching tool we use to help men radically change the anxiety that's running their lives and ruining...
- 2023 / 3 / 19Sick of Waiting For Your Marriage To Get Better?Waiting for your marriage to get better can feel like a never ending slow drawn out death. Almost everywhere you look you'll see examples of OUTCOMES that a confident man is expected to live up to. Always...
- 2023 / 3 / 11The Cause of Your Sexless MarriageWhat is the cause of your sexless marriage? If you are dependent on your wife being happy - you can't be trusted to take care of her and slowly the polarity and attraction in your marriage will fade away.The...
- 2023 / 3 / 8How to Fix Anger, Disrespect and Procrastination with One Simple MantraIn this episode I explain my meme "I don't think so cupcake!" and how you can use it step up, own your values and meet your own standards.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers...
- 2023 / 3 / 5When You're Going Through Hell...How Do You Keep Going?Sometimes doing anything feels like pushing a 2 ton truck up a hill with your bare hands...why is that? And how do you deal with it? Whether you're struggling with debt, parenting issues, a challenging...
- 2023 / 3 / 2The 5 Signs Your Marriage is Stuck in Limbo LandHere's the link to the Goodguys2Greatmen Live Coaching Roundtable. It's a special group of men and we'd love to have you join us:http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/We have...
- 2023 / 2 / 27She Can't Trust You When You Criticize HerDo you feel criticized in your relationship all the time? Are you being overly critical to her? In this video I discuss different types of criticism, what happens to the relationship when criticism is used...
- 2023 / 2 / 24What a Horse Can Teach You About Women, Intimacy and You!In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and...
- 2023 / 2 / 21Why Doctors, Lawyers and Engineers Suck at Arguing With Their WifeAre you one of the many successful men who find themselves arguing with their wife about the same things over and over again?Are you ready for the cycle of hurt, blame, resentment and disconnection to...
- 2023 / 2 / 18Why Being Vulnerable with Your Wife is Sexy (and How it Can also Turn Her Off)Why does your wife get mad at you or frustrated or shut down when you open up to her and tell her your problems or fears? Aren't we supposed to be vulnerable..?I interviewed twin sisters at a pub recently and...
- 2023 / 2 / 15The Case Against Men and Marriage CounselingShould men and marriage counselling mix? Is there a better way to resolve your relationship issues?Yes!! There’s a common pitfall many men plunge into when they go to marriage counseling.I see many of my...
- 2023 / 2 / 6Don’t Wait Until The Spark is Gone ForeverWhat is the number one cause of problems in relationships? - Commitment. Either a broken commitment or the lack of asking for a commitment. In fact most of us have never learnt HOW to ask for a commitment.In...
- 2023 / 2 / 3Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex AnymoreYour wife doesn't want sex anymore and you're trying to work out why. One of the most common ways that a wife gets turned off wanting sex with you is through how we don't show up with confidence and belief...
- 2023 / 1 / 31How You Use Your Confidence MattersIn my coaching programs I help men re-find their masculine strength, mojo and confidence.What I wanted to talk about today is the way in which you can use your confidence and manly mojo to "make shit happen"...
- 2023 / 1 / 28Marriage Spinning Out of Control? You Gotta Turn Into the Skid!Does your marriage feel like it's going downhill fast? Is your wife distant and needing space from you? This episode tells you how to handle yourself when you're faced with possible separation or divorce. In...
- 2023 / 1 / 25Being a Confident Man Nothing Changes If You Don’t ChangeAre you feeling anything BUT a confident man? Does the start of this year feel just like the previous one? Or maybe it's worse? Have you already given up on things being any different? If you're stuck in a...
- 2023 / 1 / 22Is Fear Keeping Your Marriage Stuck in Limbo?In the face of a struggling marriage, looming divorce or with a woman who needs space,a man needs CLARITY. When you're hit with "I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you"...you need clarity about what to...
- 2023 / 1 / 19How to Build Confidence by Getting S#!t Done...Even When You're SickThis episode explains how to become more confident and feel better about yourself by making commitments to getting things done. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to...
- 2023 / 1 / 16How To Handle An Angry WifeDo you regularly deal with an angry wife? How do you handle her anger? Do you get triggered and find yourself angry too? Do you feel insulted or attacked?In this episode I explain what happens inside you when...
- 2023 / 1 / 13The KEY To Improving Intimacy in Your MarriageIf you're watching this then you're probably one of the huge number of men who want to learn how to improve the connection and intimacy in their relationship or marriage.Most therapists, counsellors or...
- 2023 / 1 / 10I Don't Feel Confident Around Her AnymoreThis is an excerpt from one of our Group coaching calls where we answer the question - how do I stop my emotional reactions when my wife doesn't seem to give a cr*p about me.Come and join us in our group...
- 2023 / 1 / 7Regain Your Wife's Feelings of AttractionYour wife has said she's not feeling attracted to you and it's sent you scrambling, googling, reading, watching anything and everything, asking questions, buying gifts....And she's moving further and further...
- 2023 / 1 / 4Wife Said I Think We Need To Separate What Now?Has your wife said I think we need to separate or I want to spend some time apart or maybe we should separate and see how it goes...I know...those words can gut a man right there on the spot.If you are on the...
- 2023 / 1 / 1How to Have More Good Male FriendsDo you want to have more good male friends? So many men are isolated and alone when they hit difficult times in their life and relationships and it's such a shame because it really doesn't have to be this...
- 2022 / 12 / 29How To Lead When Your Wife Won't Let YouAre you in a marriage that is distant, cold and tense? Have you been trying really freaking hard to do everything she asks of you to make her happy? But it hasn't worked? Does she still just see the...
- 2022 / 12 / 26Why Modern Day Marriages Are Even More SexlessYou can't have more affection and sex without more confidence. Yeah I know that's not very original is it. But I have a slightly different take on the whole "confidence" thing...In this episode I discuss how...
- 2022 / 12 / 23How to Stop Being an Angry Husband (the fun way)Here's the article with the list of FIFTY TRAITS OF A HAPPILY DIVORCED MAN.https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-acting-like-a-happily-divorced-man-can-save-your-relationship/Many of the men we talk to are...
- 2022 / 12 / 20How to Fix a Passionless Marriage (and Life)Are you struggling with a lack of motivation and fulfilment?Is your relationship dull, boring, disconnected and miserable?In this episode I talk about the key to reigniting the passion and spark in yourself...
- 2022 / 12 / 17Turn Arguing Into AttractionDo you find yourself getting into arguments about the intimacy and connection in your relationship?In this episode I explain how you can turn an argument into a point of connection and leadership towards more...
- 2022 / 12 / 14I Know What You’re Thinking..and I know what SHE's thinking!Are you in a relationship that is lacking in closeness, affection, fun, laughter, and yes, sex? Are you searching around all over the internet to find ways to "get your wife back" or "save your...
- 2022 / 12 / 11Marriage Problems Regain Your Wife's Admiration & RespectAre you experiencing marriage problems? Are you feeling the strain in your marriage or relationship? Is the affection and connection between you changing? Do you want to know how to regain your wife's...
- 2022 / 12 / 8Wife Needs Space What Now?When your wife needs space the hardest thing to do is to stay in your calm, masculine energy and offer your wife the kind of space that she really needs from you at this point.Here's the video link you must...
- 2022 / 12 / 5Stuck In A Miserable Marriage?Are you feeling stuck in a miserable marriage? Does the state of your relationship make you anxious and unhappy?I thought for years that my marriage was the cause of my feeling miserable until I learned this...
- 2022 / 12 / 2My Wife Isn't Affectionate AnymoreIf your wife isn't affectionate anymore you may be doing one of the most common mistakes I see husbands making all the time with their non-affectionate wife.In this episode I talk about a 7 day challenge...
- 2022 / 11 / 29Why Great Men Love Feminine AffectionYes, great men love feminine affection WAY more than sex...don't believe me? Ask any man who's been in a really long term relationship and you'll be surprised at the answer. You may have to push him to get...
- 2022 / 11 / 26What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Attracted To YouDo you worry that the reason your marriage is less passionate is because your wife is not attracted to you? Or maybe she's actually told you that she's no longer attracted to you or not in love with you...
- 2022 / 11 / 23How To Find Peace When You're In PainThere is some deep wisdom in the notion that we actually have the ability to STOP thinking ourselves into fearful stories, fearful thoughts and fearful words and action. We often coach men to simply STOP...
- 2022 / 11 / 20The ONE THING Men Need More Than a WomanWhat do men need more than a woman? Let me explain that title a little more. I'm not saying you need this one thing more than a woman needs this one thing. I'm saying men need this one thing more than they...
- 2022 / 11 / 17How to Stop Fearful Thinking (and get your Mojo back!)Are you struggling with fearful thinking or stuck in constant anxiety? Is your life feeling out of control? Are you frustrated and resentful about your marriage? Do you wish you could let go of the...
- 2022 / 11 / 143 Traits of an Attractive Confident ManDo you want to be a more attractive confident man? What is attractive in a man? Why do women need to feel these traits of an attractive confident man (especially in a long term committed romantic relationship...
- 2022 / 11 / 11Does I need space! Mean She's Sleeping Around?Has your wife said I need space? What does that mean? Has it sent you into a tailspin of panic and anxiety? Are you worried that she is sleeping around with other men?We help men deal with this situation all...
- 2022 / 11 / 8How to Make the Hardest Decision of Your LifeWhen you're feeling frustrated, stuck, unsure or unfulfilled in your relationship, marriage, job or just life in general, we can often get bogged down in trying to have everything figured out, having all the...
- 2022 / 11 / 5How to Reignite the Attraction When Your Wife Says its GoneHow do you restore attraction when your wife says it's completely gone?There are many ways that we inadvertently create the distance and lack of intimacy that we find ourselves dealing with in our marriages...
- 2022 / 11 / 2My Wife is Distant, What Can I Do?Are you in a relationship with a woman who is distant and unable to engage in anything but short surface or logistical conversations? Does she keep leaving the room when you enter or is she on her phone at...
- 2022 / 10 / 30How to Give Her Space Without Giving UpThis episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...those 3 words that make your neck hairs stand up and your gut...
- 2022 / 10 / 27The One Thing a Man Must Not Do WithoutThis video talks about the value of male friendship and why we must learn to pursue friendships and learn to ask for help.Why?Because it will revolutionize how you feel about yourself, your life AND your...
- 2022 / 10 / 24Why You Need to Stop Chasing WomenThe video is about how "chasing" and "pursuing" what you want from women will never work. Getting affection, love and sex all starts with you knowing you're good enough without needing her to confirm that...
- 2022 / 10 / 21How to Be More Secure, Confident and Attractive in Your RelationshipIn this video I describe the most common "attachment style" problems keeping you from having the relationship you really want. If you want to save your marriage or have more affection and intimacy in your...
- 2022 / 10 / 18Why Chasing Sex Always Gets LESS SexAll you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care.You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper her with massages and make sure she has all the money she...
- 2022 / 10 / 15Your Wife Is Always Unhappy, What Should You Do?Are you living in a marriage and relationship where your Wife Is Always Unhappy? In this episode I talk about the mistake we make when trying to deal with this situation and the change in perspective that...
- 2022 / 10 / 12What is a High Value Man? & Why is it Important?Here's the link to the April 2020 UK Retreat I mention in the video:https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/"Every decision you take can either increase your value or decrease...
- 2022 / 10 / 9Why Your Wife Isn’t “Abusing” YouWarning, this video may piss you off! But I don't care - you need to hear this.In this video I discuss: What's really happening when someone treats you badly?Are you a healthy adult man who wants to become...
- 2022 / 10 / 6What Would You Do if You Felt Fearless?Today's message is simple.Confidence. Pure, unedited, open-hearted, easy going and unapologetic manly confidence! It’s what separates those who “happen to the world” and those who “wonder what happened”....
- 2022 / 10 / 3I think we should divorce..., she said with the emotion of a corpseYour wife wants a divorce and you only just found out? Did it send you into a painful spin of emotional turmoil and uncertainty? Just hearing that one word "divorce" come from your wife can be so explosive,...
- 2022 / 9 / 30How to Create More Connection & TrustWhen you're experiencing volatile emotions coming in your direction, or a volatile work place, or volatile markets - whatever the source of the anxiety and fear - there's a super powered tool in your toolbox...
- 2022 / 9 / 27How to Handle Her Anger Without Sabotaging Your Sex LifeDo you get angry or frustrated when your wife or partner is upset and you can't fix it for her?Maybe you've asked her what you can do to help and that's just made her more angry. WTF...?This episode explains...
- 2022 / 9 / 24Why Hummingbird Husbands Get No Lovin'There is a guaranteed libido killer that us men don't realize we're doing especially in a long term romantic relationship when our partner is being less affectionate, less connected, less open and getting...
- 2022 / 9 / 21There's No Connection In My MarriageDo you feel like there's no intimate connection in your marriage anymore? Are you tired of feeling awkward and lonely in your relationship? Do you feel criticised and judged often by your wife? Do you avoid...
- 2022 / 9 / 18How to Make a Woman an Irresistible OfferHow do you make a woman an irresistible offer? How do you STOP chasing affection, attention and approval and become a man who invites women into his already great life? When I say, "Stop Chasing Women" I...
- 2022 / 9 / 15How IT Workers (and other techies) Unknowingly Piss Off Their WomenIf you're a tech guy and work in IT or are in some other very logical, rational, process driven professional career like being a engineer, lawyer, doctor or a pilot, and you are in an unhappy marriage or you...
- 2022 / 9 / 12Why You Need to Stop Chasing Your Runaway WifeThis episode gives specific advice about reducing pressure and backing away enough to give yourself time to respond like a man. This can slow things down enough to develop more respect and attraction with...
- 2022 / 9 / 9More Sex & Affection: How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy AgainEver wonder why your wife doesn't seem interested in you sexually anymore?Have you ever initiated sex and heard, "Maybe later, I don't know, we'll see or I'm tired"? This episode is about how to understand...
- 2022 / 9 / 6How to Stop Arguing About Sex and Create More AttractionLINK to How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb Online Coaching Course:https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/Attention: Men Who Are Desperate To Stop The Downward Spiral Of Their Marriages...Do You Want to Know...
- 2022 / 9 / 3The Perfect Time to Ask a Woman for SexThis episode gives you tips and insight to becoming more rejection proof and confident in asking for what you want. If you are having trouble getting the sex, affection or intimacy you want, it may be...
- 2022 / 8 / 31Who REALLY Dies First? Married or Single Men?This episode is about what you need to know about being "happy". The most important thing you can do before making any decision about your unhappy, unfulfilling, sexless marriage is to first address YOUR...
- 2022 / 8 / 28How Defending Yourself Kills Her Affection For YouDoes it feel like she only sees the mistakes you make and ignores the other stuff you do for her?Do you often argue, explaining and defending your actions?In this episode I discuss how we arrive at this point...
- 2022 / 8 / 25How to Tell if She Just Wants Space...or DivorceHow do you tell the difference between a normal request to get some downtime alone and something more serious?How can you know if she is just tired or if she's quietly putting her ducks in a row and plotting...
- 2022 / 8 / 22How to Help Her Feel More Emotionally SafeThis episode graphically describes how EMOTIONAL SAFETY is one of the most important relationship insights you need with your woman. A secure, confident man can help create a safe environment without handing...
- 2022 / 8 / 19How to Be More Confident and Happy by Stopping This One HabitIn this episode I explain why TRYING TO BE RIGHT is your biggest source of unrest and unhappiness. Why do we need to convince others they are wrong? Why do we need to be right? Wouldn't you rather be happy...
- 2022 / 8 / 16How to Get Instant Relief from HorninessIn this episode I explain how to deal with your feelings of disappointment, anger, frustration, resentment and, yes, horniness. The secret is in learning to finally tell the truth. If you're a man faced...
- 2022 / 8 / 13What the Mountain Lion KNOWS...but maybe you don't quite yetAre you calm and confident that you can CREATE all the love, affection and connection you want in your life and relationship? Or are you nervous and unsure around your wife or girlfriend?Is she distant or...
- 2022 / 8 / 10Why Arguing About Stupid Stuff Kills Confidence (and attraction!)Want to create more emotional connection and intimacy with your woman? Then you must learn how to handle stupid arguments about stupid things.In this episode I give you some "old guy" wisdom on how to build...
- 2022 / 8 / 7Nothing Hotter Than a Man Wielding This ToolWhen life sucks and your relationship isn't much better, there's one tool that always makes a difference.In this episode I talk about your ability to change what's happening, to make a new path and start...
- 2022 / 8 / 4Will You Die an Unhappy Married Man?I get asked this question all the time: "Steve, what's your success rate in fixing screwed up marriages and wives?"In this episode, find out how you can avoid staying in an unhappy marriage and live to your...
- 2022 / 8 / 1What do you want? Why You Need to Have a CLEAR AnswerOften Dan and I are talking to guys who are facing some really tough relationship stuff and experiencing an ongoing, disinterested, icy chill from their partners. When we ask him, Do you know what you want?...
- 2022 / 7 / 29Why Your Dog Gets More Affection Than YouWant more affection from your wife or partner? Wonder why she seems so cold and distant with you yet with other people AND THE DOG, she's happy, bubbly and gushing with kindness and affection.This episode...
- 2022 / 7 / 26How to Re-attract Your Wife (the Truth Behind the Advice You're Looking for)There are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where passion, intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent. You may have read something that says you're in a sexless...
- 2022 / 7 / 23Kick-Start The Passion in Your Sexless MarriageThere are many reasons why we find ourselves in long-term relationships where intimacy, affection and trust are dwindling or non-existent.In this episode we discuss a change you can make in how you're showing...
- 2022 / 7 / 20My #1 Secret to Becoming a Calm, Confident and Peaceful ManThis episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to connect, learn and be accountable to other men.In our...
- 2022 / 7 / 17How to Handle Your Wife’s Threat of DivorceHas your wife mentioned divorce or made a threat of divorce recently? Maybe she's saying she needs space or is she talking about wanting to separate?This episode is about the fear every man has when he finds...
- 2022 / 7 / 6If Momma Ain't Happy...So What??There are some common sayings that have caused a lot of damage in regards to how men show up and lead in their romantic relationships over the recent decades. Another is "Happy wife happy life."We're not...
- 2022 / 7 / 3Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men Do?Many men feel like they have a higher sex drive than their partner does, but the feedback we get is that women are very sexual, so if that's the case, why do many men find themselves in marriages and...
- 2022 / 6 / 30How to Be More Confident With Women - Especially Your WifeDo you feel confident everywhere in your life EXCEPT your romantic relationship?Want to know why you can't bring that confident version of you into your interactions with your wife or lover?In this episode we...
- 2022 / 6 / 27How to Get Your Mojo Back - 3 Crucial Mindset SwitchesWhen your relationship is struggling or another big life event is bearing down on you and threatening to turn everything upside down, it's easy for us to get into an anxious, fearful mindset and try anything...
- 2022 / 6 / 24When It’s NOT Okay to Just Be Yourself With WomenWhen your marriage is struggling or you want to improve it and create more connection and affection with your wife, knowing who you are and how you see yourself is incredibly important. In this episode we...
- 2022 / 6 / 21Why Stupid Arguments Will Kill You and Your RelationshipThis episode is about why getting into stupid arguments make YOU feel bad AND makes your wife less attracted to you. It's hard for a woman to feel romantic, sexy and attracted to you when you allow stupid...
- 2022 / 6 / 18How to Jump Start Your Mojo and Start Creating More ConnectionHave you spent the past 10, 20, 30 years devoted to your wife and family and now, suddenly the relationship is struggling and you're feeling lost at sea without a rudder to know which way to go and who to...
- 2022 / 6 / 15How to Respond to Your Wife Criticising You as a Powerful, Confident ManDo you struggle to know how to respond to your Wife Criticising you? Happy Wife Happy Life is a common mantra that could well be ruining the connection, passion and intimacy in your marriage. You can't save...
- 2022 / 6 / 12How To Be A Naturally Confident ManThis episode gives you the secret to being more calm, confident and attractive in your own skin. You must believe in your own value and your own nature of masculine confidence.Find out more about the men's...
- 2022 / 6 / 9How to Have Fewer Arguments, Less Drama and More SexMost men are trying to get more affection and sex the wrong way. Fixing a sexless marriage cannot be done if you're going about it with anger, frustration and fighting. This episode explains how to be a man...
- 2022 / 6 / 6What Do You Do When Your Wife Wants Space??What should you do when your wife wants space is a tricky question to answer - most people will get defensive and start to attack her as if she's doing it to hurt you deliberately. Has YOUR wife or partner...
- 2022 / 6 / 3How to be a Confident, Independent Man...Without Being a Selfish A$$holeIn a marriage or long term relationship, affection and sex will fluctuate so How do you be a Confident Man when that happens ? How do you know if you're being too needy? You know...smothering, joined at the...
- 2022 / 5 / 31The Vulcan Mind Trick to Make Her Want More Sex With YouDo you wish there was more sex and intimacy in your relationship? Would you like to know the key to Make Her Want More Sex?Are you nervous or don't feel confident when asking for, or initiating sex with your...
- 2022 / 5 / 28Your Marriage Trouble is Fuel for Your GrowthThis episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to connect, learn and be accountable to other men.In our...
- 2022 / 5 / 19Stalled Marriage To The Ride Of Her Life...This episode is about the power of having other men in your life. The secret to getting a consistent frame of calm confidence lies in your ability to connect, learn and be accountable to other men.In our...
- 2022 / 5 / 16I Did This 100 Times and Guess What Happened?This episode reveals the truth about what it takes to get a something. Being better at marriage or anything else takes a little work. Consistency, determination and persistence will always outperform...
- 2022 / 5 / 13The Secret to a Happier & More Sexual MarriageIf your marriage is lacking in sensual, sexual energy and connection then you may be missing a sense of your own masculinity, a sense of your own masculine power and worthiness.It's a key part of keeping the...
- 2022 / 5 / 10What to Do Instead of Arguing About Toxic MasculinityToxic masculinity is being debated A LOT right now and yet the divisions between the differing sides of the argument seem to just get deeper.Most of the discourse on the topic is infused with dramatic...
- 2022 / 5 / 7How to Get Better Male FriendsWhen you're in a funk and work, relationship stress or family is getting you down, you NEED to have a group of solid men you can connect with. It makes any crappy day totally change direction, believe me. I...
- 2022 / 5 / 4The 17-Minute Cure for Overwhelm and AnxietyThis week I have two episodes for you. Video #1 is about a 3-step, 17-minute cure I discovered this week for my feelings of OVERWHELM and ANXIETY. It's nice and simple...just like I like things. The simpler...
- 2022 / 5 / 1My Wife Is Happy Around Everyone Else But MeThe most common email we receive from men starts like this..."I think my story is probably different from most other guys you talk to. My wife and I mostly get along and we're not talking about divorce. But...
- 2022 / 4 / 28From Emasculation to Powerful ManThis is a deep conversation between Alison and I about many subjects affecting men and boys in the current climate of tension and distrust between men and women.We cover many topics in this hour long chat...
- 2022 / 4 / 25Disrespect & Dealing With Emotional Triggers - Live CoachingDo you struggle dealing with rejection from your wife or romantic partner? Does it feel like she's constantly criticising and complaining about everything you do?Would you like to be able to handle these...
- 2022 / 4 / 22The Massive Turn Off Women Feel (and we don't even know it)Horse hate pressure - and so do women. Learn more about why and what you can do differently.Do you know how to create positive emotional pressure? Do you know how to attract women with positive sexual...
- 2022 / 4 / 14The ONE Masculine Trait You Can’t Live WithoutIf being a man means being calm, deliberate and pleased...then HOW do you achieve that? In this episode I explain why CLARITY in the #1 factor in determining your ability to be a calm, deliberate and very...
- 2022 / 4 / 11How to Get the Happy, Sexual Relationship You WantGetting the happy, sexual relation you want is easy...but the decisions needed to create that are not. Most guys try to "fix" their relationship or their wife or girlfriend. The secret the having the happy,...
- 2022 / 4 / 8How Your Attachment Style is Messing Up Your Sex LifeThis episode is an interview with couples coach and relationship expert, Bruce Muzik. In this video we talk about:Insecure attachment and how it looks, sounds, feels and smells in your relationshipThe...
- 2022 / 4 / 5How to be Confidently Independent Without Being an AssThis episode explains why you don't have to be a jerk to be a confident, independent man. Your marriage and all your relationships will be more stable, more happy and more affectionate when you are operating...
- 2022 / 4 / 2Are You a Pandemic Bear or Mountain Lion?Are you finding that you're feeling more anxious, more criticised, more frustrated and wanting to get away from it all lately?In this episode I discuss how to face this time in your life in a way that helps...
- 2022 / 3 / 25How Talking to Other Men Can Make You More Attractive to Your Wife (and Other Women)This episode describes how to live longer as a man who is more calm, confident and connected. Why having a mission and sense of purpose makes you healthier, happier and more attractive. This is how you...
- 2022 / 3 / 22How To Handle The Silent Treatment (And What You're Doing To Cause It)Do you get so frustrated with your partner that you avoid speaking or interacting with her? Does she give you the silent treatment?Do you feel like there's no point interacting because she'll only find fault...
- 2022 / 3 / 19How to Build More Trust and Affection with Your Wife or Long Term PartnerHave you ever given a compliment to you wife or partner only for them to become offended or more cold and distant from you?in this episode I discuss the difference between acknowledging your partner for what...
- 2022 / 3 / 13Free Marriage Counselling Book For MenIf you're under 35 and your marriage sucks and you're unhappy and thinking about why you even bother staying...we have a essential free book for you to read.We coach men all the time at the point of crisis...
- 2022 / 3 / 10Men...Anxiety...and Why We Suck at Relaxing!If you're feeling anxious, STOP, take some time for yourself, stop trying so hard to "get" everything done.We often talk about slowing down "Slow down to speed up" - the premise behind this is that slow is...
- 2022 / 3 / 7How to Cure Your Pandemic Pissyness (and improve your marriage at the same time!)There's trouble in paradise...and it's caused by the problematic pandemic pissyness plaguing many marriages. (pretty cool use of alliteration there, huh?)Men (and their wives) are starting to get WAY too...
- 2022 / 3 / 4How to Reduce Your Marriage AnxietyWhen it comes to the acute type of marriage anxiety in men who discover she's not happy or loves you but isn't IN LOVE with you, our problem is often our THINKING. You've been thinking that the meaning,...
- 2022 / 3 / 1Improve Your Marriage, Get More Confidence, Crush Your Life!When you've been stuck in a relationship that isn't satisfying, isn't serving you, and you spend the majority of your time unhappy - sometimes you have to talk to someone who can help you understand what...
- 2022 / 3 / 1The Simple Question To Get What You Want In Your MarriageWhen our relationship is strained we often go into fixing mode but this just pushes her further away. This episode tells you how to reduce your anxiety and uncertainty and become a man who is confident in...
- 2022 / 2 / 26How to Stop Overreacting and Stay in YOUR LaneThis episode explains how and why you must learn to stay in your lane and not over react to things outside your control. Success in your life and relationship requires you to see things clearly and calmly...
- 2022 / 2 / 23Is My Wife Having an Affair? What Should I Do Now??Are you concerned that your wife is cheating on you or considering having an affair? Is she becoming more distant from you? Always on her phone texting or messaging other people?In this episode I explain...
- 2022 / 2 / 20She Won't Tell Me How She's FeelingWhy is it that sometimes she's able to share openly with you and other times she's not? What is causing the negative feedback and what causes it to change to positive? When is she available to connect with...
- 2022 / 2 / 17Miserable Marriage to Best Day Ever...How?If your relationship is tense and struggling then the natural instinct is to dig in, focus more, put more time effort and attention on it and find the cause so you can fix it.But so often when a man does...
- 2022 / 2 / 14The Quickest Way to Being a More Confident ManThere's a bond that is like no other when two men commit to helping each other, without hiding anything, without holding anything back.When a man first contacts us he often doesn't have a certain type of man...
- 2022 / 2 / 8How to Know if You'll Be Happier if You DivorceDo you feel like she's always pissed at you? You're walking on eggshells wondering what mood she's going to be in when you get home.So what should you do? Would it be better to just call time on the...
- 2022 / 2 / 5What Kind of Man Can Save His Marriage?Do you want to save your marriage? Or attract your wife back? Or win her heart so she'll love you and have sex again forever? Lots of men want that.This video is about who you will need to be - not what...
- 2022 / 2 / 2Three Traits of a Sexually Satisfied ManAre you sexually satisfied in your relationship? Do you want more sex and intimacy?Sexually Satisfied Men Share These Three Basic Traits: 1. High level of self-respect and keen awareness of their masculine...
- 2022 / 1 / 26How a Man Should Measure His MojoSelf confidence, self esteem, being a confident man, being a sexy man and husband, these are all types of confidence that we refer to as Mojo. What level of Mojo are you feeling today? Do you know?In this...
- 2022 / 1 / 23How to Get Love and Affection Without Having to Pay For ItWhy men need to be mindful of the mindset and energy when relating with women is because women sense everything - they're constantly feeding this information back to you in many different ways and we can...
- 2022 / 1 / 20Fix Your Unhappy Marriage - Be The Confident Man She Fell In Love WithLearn how to become unwaveringly confident in yourself and your ability to lead your relationship back to the intimacy and affection you deserve.Do you feel like your marriage is slipping from your grasp? In...
- 2022 / 1 / 13Why You Should NEVER Use This C Word on Your WomanHave you ever called your wife "crazy"? This episode explains why this is one of the worst words you can use in your marriage. If you're trying to save your marriage and build more trust and intimacy with...
- 2022 / 1 / 10You're not making me happy!...and other marital nonsenseDo you find yourself mulling over in your head all the reasons that your partner makes you unhappy, why they should be different and give you more of something...more love, more sex, more affection, more...
- 2022 / 1 / 7The Kind Of Confidence That Your Wife Is Attracted ToSometimes we feel full of self confidence and want to take on the world. Things are going right for us at work, with friends, at home - life is great. But then it falls flat and we lose our confidence. Why?...
- 2022 / 1 / 4What Makes a Woman Go WOW Within 5 Minutes of Being With YouThis episode talks about the "Wow factors" that can make a woman feel comfortable, interested, attracted and safe within the first 5 minutes of you being with her. These apply both to women you've just met...
- 2022 / 1 / 1The #1 Cause of Unhappily Married Men - They Keep Looking downThis episode explains how to stop stumbling and tripping yourself up in your life and marriage and start looking farther ahead. The #1 reason married men are unhappy is because they are looking DOWN - ...
- 2021 / 12 / 31Why HOPING to Save Your Marriage is UselessThis episode explains why the concept of "hope" is ineffective for men who want to "save their marriage" and what kind of hope they need instead.I want you to hope and WORK toward a healthier mindset, a more...
- 2021 / 12 / 30The ONE THING You Need to Feel More Calm, Clear and ConfidentThis episode explains why your VALUES and MASCULINE OPERATING PRINCIPLES (or the LACK of them) are the key to your confidence, happiness and peacefulness. With clear values, you can finally take the lead in...
- 2021 / 12 / 29The Single Biggest Threat to Your ConfidenceThere's a very common issue in many men's marriages and relationships at the moment and it's hard to see until it's too late and the consequences are already having a negative effect on your relationship.In...
- 2021 / 12 / 28What if Your Wife “Fired” You Tomorrow?In this episode I talk about a common mistake of viewing your marriage or relationship like it's a job or place of employment. Us men can often accidentally treat our marriage as we would a relationship with...
- 2021 / 12 / 27How to Teach Her to Stop Criticizing YouDo you feel like you're being disrespected at home or in your relationship? Have you tried to get it to stop but end up being frustrated, laughed at and then just give up?In this episode I talk about how one...
- 2021 / 12 / 26How to Feel More Confident & Strong in Your MarriageThis episode is about why LIKING YOURSELF is critical to feeling confident and strong. When we feel sad, rejected, disrespected or abandoned, it's usually because someone is doing or being a certain way. ...
- 2021 / 12 / 25Your Marriage Sucks? Only TWO THINGS Can Change ThatWhen your marriage or relationship is struggling, when connection and intimacy is infrequent or non-existent then this quote is for you..."Only two things change your life: either something new comes into...
- 2021 / 12 / 24Are You Horngry? (and is it ruining your marriage?)Do you wake up every day feeling horny but you get rebuffed or rejected when you try to initiate sex?Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, passion and intimacy in your marriage?In this episode I talk...
- 2021 / 12 / 17The Hidden Cause of Your Sexless MarriageIs there a lack of sex and intimacy in your relationship? Are you always trying to improve the amount of connection and bedroom time you get with your wife?In this episode I talk about one of the hidden...
- 2021 / 12 / 14A More Connected, Passionate Relationship Guaranteed!How do you go from a relationship that is cold, disconnected, and heading in the direction of separation and divorce and instead turn it around toward a new horizon filled with connection, intimacy, fun and...
- 2021 / 12 / 11Women's Biggest Turn On (Your Masculine Energy)When you are faced with an upset woman, how do you react? Do you take it personally, try to fix her or maybe shut down?Those moments where your woman is deep in her emotions are actually the perfect...
- 2021 / 12 / 8How Men Lose Their AttractivenessHow did your relationship get to this point? Maybe you just want more sex and affection. Maybe you're dealing with a partner who avoids talking and needs lots of space.However you got here, we can find...
- 2021 / 12 / 1Why You Need to be UncomfortableIn relationships we men can avoid being vulnerable, and that's a problem because when you want connection with another human being, you have to be willing to be real and honest and that means being willing to...
- 2021 / 11 / 28Sexless Marriage? How to Respond in a Way That Will Attract Her Back to YouYour wife or partner not wanting to spend time with you is a sign of an imbalance in your relationship. There is a way that you can turn this around BUT it's not how your body is telling you to behave. That...
- 2021 / 11 / 25The Best Way to Connect With Your WifeWhen your relationship is struggling and you feel like you're walking on eggshells, we often find ourselves trying anything and everything to make things calm and relaxed again.But what if your wife or...
- 2021 / 11 / 22I Hate My Wife, How do I Create a Passionate Marriage Again?In this episode I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you woke up tomorrow and simply chose to love?Become a...
- 2021 / 11 / 19Neediness - 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Know if You’re Being That GuyIn this episode I explain how anger, arguing and loneliness can show up in unhealthy ways and how they are the key indicators of needy, unattractive behavior.Become a supporter of this podcast:...
- 2021 / 11 / 16Should I Still Fight for My Marriage?When it looks like the marriage is over and you've tried all avenues to turn it around, what is left?In our coaching we get asked this question all the time "We're heading toward divorce, so at this stage, do...
- 2021 / 11 / 13How to Survive a Sh*t Storm by Doing Nothing at AllWhether you're struggling with a relationship that's flailing around or you're flailing around - as I have been all day getting the snow cleared up here - there's one thing that I want you to know that can...
- 2021 / 11 / 10What Does Masculine Confidence Actually Look Like?This is a story about when I first learnt what a confident masculine man looked and felt like. It was an energy of being unrattled, unshakeable, so calm and confident in his own ability to deal with any...
- 2021 / 11 / 10How to Handle Anger and Anxiety and Be a Sexier ManAgitation, anger, short temper and overwhelm can get the best of us. In this episode I share how I deal with it in my way. What is YOUR way?Here is the link to the Guided Meditation - Being That...
- 2021 / 11 / 7How to Attract Her Toward You When She's Backing AwayWhat can you do when your wife or partner tells you she needs space or that she feels smothered or she's not sure what she feels for you anymore or that she feels numb?Most of us men are surprised by this and...
- 2021 / 11 / 4Failing Marriage? How to Create a Better RelationshipSo many of us have the best of intentions with regards to our marriage and long term relationships but yet when issues arise we struggle to find a solution to the problems.In this episode we discuss how our...
- 2021 / 11 / 13 Ways to Know You're Not Ready for a GirlfriendIn this episode I discuss some of the common unhealthy reasons many men use when they decide to have a relationship with a woman and explain how to start a relationship from a much healthier position of...
- 2021 / 10 / 29The Ultimate (and scariest) Test of Your ManhoodThis episode teaches you how to be a vulnerable man WITHOUT making it a point of weakness. How to be strong in your vulnerability and why sharing with other men is critically important.Become a supporter of...
- 2021 / 10 / 26I Stayed Married But I'm MiserableAre you stuck in a miserable, unhappy marriage? Have you been trying to improve the intimacy and closeness between you for what seems like years and yet you feel no closer to the relationship you want and...
- 2021 / 10 / 23Why I Don't Want to Talk About Your FeelingsThis episode explains why you can't trust your feelings and how to become more aware of your emotional world and the THINKING that causes your feelings. Men who want a better marriage, more trust, more...
- 2021 / 10 / 20How Men Sabotage Intimate ConnectionHave you had a woman tell you you're creepy or needy? Do you want to understand why and what you can do about it?Or have you experienced having a really great conversation with a woman and then suddenly the...
- 2021 / 10 / 17The Hands Down Hottest Thing About A ManIf your marriage or relationship is NOT how you want it to be and you seem to be going round and round in circles having the same arguments, the same connection then disconnection, the same resentment, then...
- 2021 / 10 / 14What if I've Been Friend Zoned by My Wife?If your relationship or marriage is dull, passionless and just full of domestic work, kids, dogs, house DIY etc with no fun, flirtation, kissing, desire or sex, then this episode is for you.Go to...
- 2021 / 10 / 11Only A Great Man Can Do ThisWhat is the thing that turns a relationship around?Over and over again I've seen this play out in relationships but it also relates to every area of life.It's a key part of what makes a great man great.In...
- 2021 / 10 / 5How Your Energy Is Affecting Your RelationshipHow are women like horses? Could a horse help you learn how to lead your relationship more effectively? We believe that yes, absolutely they can. In fact there's a whole field of psychology that uses horses...
- 2021 / 9 / 29How to Not Have a Crappy New YearHow do you know whether next year is going to be crappy? You can think about all the things that went wrong last year, all the things that you didn't want to happen, all the things that you didn't like, or...
- 2021 / 9 / 23How to Build More Trust and Affection with HerHave you ever given a compliment to you wife or partner only for them to become offended or more cold and distant from you?in this episode I discuss the difference between acknowledging your partner for what...
- 2021 / 9 / 11What to Do When Your Wife Wants SpaceHas your wife or partner told you she wants some space? Maybe she's said she's feeling stressed or smothered. That she's not sure what she wants right now or that she needs some time to figure out who she...
- 2021 / 8 / 30You (and your emotions) are NOT in PrisonWouldn’t it be nice if being vulnerable with your wife was easy? Sure, it would. So would financial freedom, effortless sex and world peace and, like those, it’s a lot more complicated than you would like.In...
- 2021 / 8 / 27Why She Won't Touch You the Way You Want Her ToHas your wife stopped being affectionate toward you? Does she say that she doesn't enjoy being touched? Is she creating distance between you? There are reasons for her behaviour and it's not that she doesn't...
- 2021 / 8 / 24How to Become So Confident That You Can Turn Down SexWhat if you were so confident in yourself and your relationship that you could turn down sex with your wife...? Can you ever imagine that?In this episode I talk about why we see this happen with our coaching...
- 2021 / 8 / 21She's Warming Up to You Again... Now What?What do you do when YOU'VE started becoming more calm, more confident and consistent as a man and leader in your marriage or relationship and you're clear about what you want and what you expect FOR yourself...
- 2021 / 8 / 18How to Eliminate Soul Sucking Energy from Your LifeI want to talk with you about your mindset.It’s everything. And without the proper mindset, well, we’re pretty much screwed in every facet of life.The wrong mindset can rob you of the future you secretly...
- 2021 / 8 / 15How We Must THINK About Female RejectionDo you know the feeling of being rejected by a woman? Whether it's through your family, your work or (as with most of us men) from your romantic partner, rejection is a tough thing to deal with.In this...
- 2021 / 8 / 12How to Handle Her Anger Without Making Things WorseDo you avoid your partner when she's angry? Do you try to avoid creating conflict as much as possible.In this episode I explain why she hates that, how it makes her feel and why it's damaging her affection...
- 2021 / 8 / 9Do You Secretly Wish Your Marriage Was Over?Are you a good guy who appears to everyone else to be a happy husband but really underneath it all, you're NOT happy and you're especially not happy about the state of your marriage?In this episode I talk...
- 2021 / 8 / 5Why Happily Divorced Men Hang Around Better People (and you should too)When your relationship is having difficulties, the natural thing to want to try and do is to fix it but how can you when everything you do appears to be wrong?In this episode I discuss why changing your focus...
- 2021 / 8 / 2Cold, Affectionless Marriage? Here's How I Fixed it...Are you in an affectionless marriage? Many men (myself included) find themselves 15, 20 years into a marriage and wondering "Is this it???" They poke and prod to see if they can get more enthusiasm and...
- 2021 / 7 / 30Scared to Talk Dirty? Here's Why You Shouldn't BeIs your discomfort with “dirty talk” affecting the depth of intimacy you have with your wife?One of the biggest reasons women are uncomfortable with our compliments and sensual talk is because we are...
- 2021 / 7 / 27How to Be a Man Who Women Call AmazingWhen your wife is pulling away, doesn't know what she wants, is inconsistent, sometimes affectionate, sometimes cold and snarky...what do you do?In this episode I talk about a man who went through coaching...
- 2021 / 7 / 24What Women Really Love About MenDo women really love a 'manly man'?What even is that anyway?This episode describes how we sometimes get the aspects that women love to see and feel from men mixed up and how you can bring them into your...
- 2021 / 7 / 21How to Feel Totally Seen, Heard, and UnderstoodMen grow exponentially when they spend time with other high quality men - I didn't believe it until I started trying it. I can't quite explain how, but when you're with another man who is able to meet you in...
- 2021 / 7 / 18I What You to Know THIS Feeling...Wow!If you're feeling lonely, lost or disconnected in your life and marriage, I want you to know that you're not alone...in fact there are SO many men, SO MANY men going through exactly what you're going through...
- 2021 / 7 / 15How to Handle Anger as a Strong Masculine ManDo you find yourself getting frustrated and angry often? Is it something your wife or partner brings up? Would you like to be able to handle moments like these in a way that quickly brings you back to being...
- 2021 / 7 / 12How to Move From Wishy-Washy to Being a Hell Yes Man!Is your marriage or relationship feeling disconnected and lifeless? Do you struggle to feel the enthusiasm and excitement that used to be there all the time between you?In this episode I talk about the...
- 2021 / 7 / 9Why YOU Need the Mojo of a Happily Divorced ManIf you're in a struggling relationship, the last thing you feel is free, happy, bold, confident, clear headed. In this episode I explain why it's the mojo of the happily divorced man that can change your life...
- 2021 / 7 / 650 Reasons to Act More Like a Happily Divorced Man...TodayIn this episode I discuss the first two aspects of a happily divorced man that change how he is BEING and have the potential to revolutionise the way his wife and all other women react to him.Reclaiming the...
- 2021 / 7 / 3Are Your Excuses for Being Unsatisfied a Bunch of Crap?Do you think you're stuck? Without any options to create the life and relationship that you want to have? I want to tell you why that's not correct.In this episode I talk about how you can change everything...
- 2021 / 6 / 30Why You Need a Wing ManWhat do you do when you're in a crappy marriage or distant relationship with no affection, trust and connection?You need to find yourself a man you can trust or preferably more than one man who's there for...
- 2021 / 6 / 27Marriage in Crisis? Why I'm Not Buying ItHave you heard your partner say “Our marriage is in crisis”, or “Our marriage lacks connection”, "Our sex life sucks", “Our relationship is complicated”, or “We are in a struggling marriage?”I expect you...
- 2021 / 6 / 24Is Sex So Important That You Would Leave?Have you heard this question from your wife? Yes we think that sex is important and yet so are the family and her and the kids....so what do you do?In this episode I talk about the real choice behind this...
- 2021 / 6 / 20Being a Strong ManIs your marriage struggling, do you feel criticised, challenged and need to keep defending yourself?In this episode I talk about the most important thing that men struggle with that is often at the heart of...
- 2021 / 6 / 17I Can’t Tell If She’s Bored, Having An Affair Or Just DoneAre you anxious, worried, tense and scared about what's happening in your relationship, your career or life in general?In this episode I talk about the constant factor behind those feelings and what you can...
- 2021 / 6 / 14How To Drive Her Wild (In A Good Way)What makes for a good driver? What makes for a good leader? What makes for a good lover?In this episode I talk about the key to your wife or partner's trust in you, the key to her feeling safe and relaxed...
- 2021 / 6 / 11What Meatloaf and Your Love Life Have in CommonIs your relationship struggling, lacking affection and intimacy and closeness or passion? Are you binge watching our videos, books and starting to feel much better about yourself?In this episode I talk about...
- 2021 / 6 / 8The Secret to Getting Her to Give You What You WantThere's a common factor in a lot of the relationships that the men I talk to in our coaching programs and community struggle with...It sounds like "how long it usually takes a wife to 'recover' from her hurt...
- 2021 / 6 / 5The Secret to More Fun in Your MarriageIs your relationship tense and disconnected?Maybe it feels awkward and you're struggling to connect or even talk to each other.In this episode I talk about the key to a more relaxed, fun and passionate...
- 2021 / 6 / 2How to Not Die a Grumpy Old ManThis episode explains the REAL cause of our angry tempers and outbursts. When we can admit - OUT LOUD - why we are angry a funny thing happens. We're no longer angry. We get to focus on something more...
- 2021 / 5 / 30The #1 Reason James Bond Doesn't Argue With WomenDo you find yourself in too many stupid arguments? Do you end up taking things personally all the time all just react to your emotions? How do you STOP taking things so personally so you don't get drawn...
- 2021 / 5 / 27How to Measure Your Manhood CorrectlyWhat is the measure of great man?This episode tells you ONE method to know if you are being the man you want to be and why a great man must have a solid foundation.Become a supporter of this podcast:...
- 2021 / 5 / 24Did Your Wife Call You “Controlling”? Here’s Probably WhyDoes your wife tell you that you're controlling? And does that bug the sh*t out of you?There's a common factor that causes us to be controlling which also turns us into needy, defensive, arguing, snip, whiny...
- 2021 / 5 / 21The 3 Big Mistakes Men Make When Trying to Build Trust and Connection with WomenAre you getting increasingly frustrated with how your wife or girlfriend acts around you? Is she distancing herself? Not offering or accepting affection or compliments from you? In this episode, I explain the...
- 2021 / 5 / 18Please STOP Doing This (I will too)In this episode I describe the secret that men don't want women to know but can't deny is true.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
- 2021 / 5 / 15The One Thing Husbands Love More Than Sex and Can't Tell YouIn this episode I talk about the incredible power that women have to inspire and make their men feel amazing - and it has nothing to do with SEX!Become a supporter of this podcast:...
- 2021 / 5 / 13The L Word That Makes Men Unnecessarily NervousWhat do you think about leadership when it relates to relationships? Do you think it means being controlling? Does your wife?In this episode I talk about the difference between guiding and leading, the...
- 2021 / 5 / 11What to do When She Flips Your Anger SwitchHow do you handle your wife or partner when you get triggered and suddenly find yourself angry and emotional, maybe frustrated and feeling insulted or attacked?In this episode I explain why we get triggered,...
- 2021 / 5 / 9Why You Need to Lighten Up...FrancisDo you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, anxious and stressed or depressed and serious? Do you find yourself focused on what is happening to you and trying to avoid things going wrong?In this episode I talk...
- 2021 / 5 / 7How to Know if You're a Real ManIn this episode I talk about the powerful truth that men need other men to help them grow into better men. We don't get taught this at school or in society so it's a truth I had to learn for myself and I'm...
- 2021 / 5 / 5Your Mojo and How to Handle Her Threats of DivorceI often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man’s FEAR of divorce.Why?Because when we’re scared of anything we tend to screw things up.With the exception of your life saving instincts...
- 2021 / 5 / 3What is Masculine Presence?What is masculine presence and why does your wife or partner crave it from you?In this episode I explain what having a masculine presence and masculine energy looks and feels like as well as what it's not and...
- 2021 / 5 / 1How to BE a Man Who is Powerfully Confident & Not Just Act Like OneIn this episode I talk about the common place that successful men find themselves where the relationship they had with their wife is suddenly changing. She's becoming more distant and less affectionate and...
- 2021 / 4 / 30Where the Hell Did My Confidence Go? (Maybe you never really had it)There's a very special trait many of the men in our "tribe" have in common and it drives them absolutely crazy. What is it? - It's the feeling of LOST CONFIDENCE. What happens? There's a different kind...
- 2021 / 4 / 28The Real Reason Men Don't Ask for DirectionsIn this episode I talk about the reason that men don't ask for help, why it's ridiculous and the immense benefit that getting help provides!If you're in a relationship or stage in your life where you're...
- 2021 / 4 / 25What to Do About Her BoyfriendsDoes your wife have inappropriate male friends? How are you going to think about that?This is specifically for the husband in a rocky marriage where you feel boundaries are being crossed. And for some reason...
- 2021 / 4 / 21How To Trust Someone You Can't TrustWhen your relationship is struggling and you just don't know if you can trust her, everything is confusing and you feel insecure and tentative.In this episode we talk about trust and how, at its foundation,...
- 2021 / 4 / 19She Said She's Leaving - Now What?If you have noticed your wife or partner becoming more and more distant and disconnected, maybe rude and disrespectful with you recently, then you may be experiencing what is known as the "walk-away wife...
- 2021 / 4 / 177 Days to a More Affectionate WomanFor 7 days, stop this mistake which makes your wife or partner more distant and less affectionate towards you and notice how she becomes more relaxed and appreciative of you.Become a supporter of this...
- 2021 / 4 / 15Unhappy Wife and Marriage? Let's Get Your Head Straight NowYour wife wants space, she feels no connection or she loves you but isn't "in love" with you. What do you do next? This episode tells you what you need to THINK next in order the use this time for regaining...
- 2021 / 4 / 13What a Golden Retriever Can Teach Us About Taking Our Balls BackI want to talk with you about living in the kind of life and relationship you really, really want.That last sentence has a key word in it. It’s the word “living”.Note, I didn’t say “getting” the life you want...
- 2021 / 4 / 11The Simple Mind Hack to Creating More Connection and IntimacyThis episode explains how you can THINK differently about your woman in order to create more trust, connection and intimacy. It all starts with POSITIVE REGARD.Become a supporter of this podcast:...
- 2021 / 4 / 2The Silent Killer of Sex, Trust and Intimacy in Your RelationshipThis episode describes the bad habit men have of comparing themselves to others. This habit kills confidence and your sense of personal power and value. This habits kills intimacy and your sex life because...
- 2021 / 3 / 31Is This Why Your Wife Turns You Down For Sex?Why does your wife turn you down when you try to initiate sex or intimacy?Why is the first word our of her mouth "No" before you've even finished saying what you're saying or attempting to connect with...
- 2021 / 3 / 29Turn Her No Into A Yes!Most men struggle with rejection at some point in their relationships with women.In this episode I talk about the secret to not just handling that rejection but reversing it...Become a supporter of this...
- 2021 / 3 / 27What Does Confident Masculinity Look Like?Does your marriage or relationship feel disconnected and strained?Are you wishing for more closeness, affection, fun and flirtation?In this episode I talk about a story from a client who turned a point of...
- 2021 / 1 / 21How to be More Attractive by Stopping Wishy-WashinessIf you want your wife to be more attentive, more affectionate, more appreciative and more intimate you can start by being more decisive.Wishy-Washiness is the energy of indecision, tentativeness and...
- 2021 / 1 / 19Could Divorce Ever Be a Gift? (it depends on your perspective)When you've just heard the words "I want a divorce" or "we need to separate" "I need space" or "I'm not in love with you", you have only ONE effective choice to make...that choice is to learn something and...
- 2021 / 1 / 17How To Be The “Keeper of the Spark & Passion” in Your RelationshipHow do you handle a marriage that's lost its spark? Do you feel like the passion in your relationship has died? What can you do about that?This comes up a lot in our coaching with men who want more from their...
- 2021 / 1 / 15Are You a Sex-Starved Overly Apologetic Man?Why do men become overly apologetic, tentative, scared and miserable in their marriages? And what does it mean to be an unapologetic man and to live in you power? That's what I discuss in this episode.Become...
- 2020 / 12 / 19I Get So Anxious When I’m Around HerDo you find yourself getting upset, nervous, frustrated or anxious when you're either about to speak to a woman, or your wife?Maybe there's some tension recently and you really want to smooth things over with...
- 2020 / 12 / 16How to Respond to the Threat of DivorceWe men can deal with all sorts of crises, whether it's a house potentially burning down (as mine could do right now) or an injury, a car accident, or a total disaster at work - we can deal with it and still...
- 2020 / 12 / 12Handle Her Moods in a Way That Defuses the Conflict and Creates AffectionHow to handle her changes in mood in a way that shows her you will always be there for her, always reliable, dependable, loving and leading her to a happier more loving and affectionate relationship.You lead...
- 2020 / 12 / 9Erotic Energy and the Big Mistake Men Make in Trying to Find ItHas your marriage become boring?Has the sparkle left the interactions you have with your wife?In this video I explain how you can bring back the fun, flirting, dirty jokes, dancing, footsie under the table,...
- 2020 / 12 / 5Does Your Wife Just Want Space Or A Divorce_How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown???How do you tell is she's just tired or if she's quietly plotting her departure from the...
- 2020 / 12 / 2Are You Leading or Being Controlling_Does your wife or partner tell you that you're controlling? Do you understand what that means for her and why she feels that way?In this episode I discuss how to tell if you're being controlling and what to...
- 2020 / 11 / 28Her Lack of Desire is Driving me Crazy!This episode is an excerpt from one of the Roundtable group coaching sessions we ran last year and covers one of the most common questions we get asked and one of the biggest sources of frustration for men in...
- 2020 / 11 / 21Are You Afraid Of Your Sexual Power_Most men were taught at a young age to put other people's needs first, that to be a good man, a good husband, a good lover...you must make sure everyone else is happy and looked after.Anything else must mean...
- 2020 / 11 / 183 Mistakes That Kill Her Ability to Give You AffectionAll you want is to connect physically with your partner again. You've been trying hard to make her happy but she's distant and avoids spending time with you. So what can you do?The article I mention in the...
- 2020 / 11 / 113 Masculine Values You Need for More Intimacy...and Self Respect!Most guys who complain about lack of connection, intimacy and respect are battling a serious condition I'll call LOW VALUES SYNDROME.If you want to be an effective man, better father and more attractive...
- 2020 / 11 / 113 Important Secrets for Married Guys Having a Tough TimeYour unhappy marriage didn't get into this state by chance. There are reasons why you behave the way you do towards each other.Become a supporter of this podcast:...